Kamala Harris: 7 Love Lessons for Women Dating After 40 From

Kamala Harris and I have some important Love Lessons for you if you’re a mature single woman looking for love. My proud lefty, progressive, feminist self is over the moon with the woman who will… Read more

Dating After Divorce: 9 Powerful Tips to Lead You to Love

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… Read more

Bring Joy Into Your Last Valentine’s Day as a Single Woman

Ugh. Another Valentine’s Day. What if you KNEW this would be your last Valentine’s Day as a single woman? The last one spent with “me, myself, and I,” with a pack of single girlfriends or… Read more

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Avoid Sadness When You’re Single During the Holidays

This time of year can be joyous…or – if you are single during the holidays – it can be pretty crappy. We get to eat more, work less, shop till we drop, and frolic with… Read more

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Being The Only Single in a World of Happy Couples

I went to a great party last weekend given by our dear friends, Heidi and Jack. There I was at dinner and I couldn’t help but marvel at the 7 happy couples sitting around the… Read more

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Dating a Widower: Can He Be Your Mr. Right?

Since I specialize in helping women over 40 find love, clients often ask about dating a widower. Is it a waste of time? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my… Read more

Dating After Divorce: 9 Powerful Tips to Lead You to Love

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… Read more

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He Ghosted You. Why and WTF Should You Do Now?

He ghosted you. You went on a date or two or three. You liked him, and he seemed into you. Then, without warning…no return texts, no calls, he even blocked you on Facebook. That bastard.… Read more

Why Successful Women Over 40 Stay Single

Why do so many successful women over 40 stay single? While we do so well in all other parts of our lives, why can the romantic part seem to be packed with challenges and drama?… Read more

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The Delightful Difference Between Dating Mature Men and Boys

Are you still thinking that dating mature men is the same as dating those boys you used to date? I have a question for you:  When you look at yourself today, are you the same… Read more