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Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first “hello” or glance across the room. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates from there.… read the full post…

Are Your Expectations of Men Realistic? Straight Talk for Grownup Women.

Have you ever wondered “are my expectations of men realistic?” I can tell you with 99% certainty that, no, they are not. And that may be the very thing that is keeping you single. Not… read the full post…

Are Your Expectations of Men Based in Fear?

Are your expectations of men based on fear? Good chance they are and that’s likely sabotaging your relationships with good men. Give this a read to see if you’re fears are getting in the way… read the full post…

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Should You Trust Your Instincts About Dating and Love?

“Intuition is truly a feminine quality, but women should not mistake rash conclusions for this gift.” Minna Antrim How much should you pay attention to your instincts about dating and love? The other day I… read the full post…

Are You Waiting for Some Fantasy Man? (FemiType #4: The Wow-Me Woman)

Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives as they wait for some fantasy man. We usually don’t even know we’re doing it. Finally having this pointed out to me in… read the full post…

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Let Go of These 47 Things to Find Love after 40

I was 47 in 2006 when I became a first-time bride. I admit that it wasn’t easy to find love after 40. But by 47 I had finally learned what I needed to learn, I had… read the full post…

Why You’re a Little Scared of Dating (and How to Dump that Fear)

Are you just a little (or a lot) scared of dating? Or maybe of actually entering into a relationship? You’re NOT alone! I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love since I became… read the full post…

He Doesn’t Hear Me When I Talk – What Should I Do?

Dating Advice for Women over 40: I talk, but he doesn’t hear me. What should I do? I provide all my private coaching clients with a 911 call option so they can call me when… read the full post…

What to Do When He Pisses You Off

Are you an independent, smart single woman who is dating and looking for love? If so, you’ve likely been challenged with how to respond when a man pisses you off.  You know…when he says or… read the full post…

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8 Brutally Honest Truths You Need To Hear If You Want To Stop Being Single

No matter how much you may think you have your shit together, life carries harsh truths. No matter how much you deny these truths, it is only through acceptance that you will stop being single and… read the full post…