You see an online profile of a guy who seems great. Or you show up to your coffee date and wowza, he’s way cuter, nicer, smarter, funnier than you expected. How to let him know… Read more

If you don’t ask…you don’t get. This is one of my Dad’s favorite lines and I think the key to being happy with men. Dad’s premise was that it is your responsibility to state what… Read more

Want to be happy with a man? Learn how to ask for what you want in a kind, non-threatening way, is the strongest tool you can use in a relationship. Here’s how.

You went on a date or two or three. You liked him, and he seemed into you. Then, without warning…no return texts, no calls, he even blocked you on Facebook. That bastard…he ghosted you! Welcome… Read more

The women I am lucky enough to coach come to me because they want to find love. They have had career success, family success, and they’ve already ticked a lot off their bucket list.  Now they are… Read more

Posting online profile photos can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women dating after 40. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is… Read more

There is a lot at stake at the beginning of a relationship, so it pays to ask yourself the question, “How long should I wait to have sex?” Sex can be a glorious part of… Read more

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… Read more

Girlfriend, do you need some new girlfriends?  One of the biggest challenges my clients have is finding new friends over 50. Most of their girlfriends at this age are either seriously coupled or they skew… Read more