How do you find quality men? You know…the ones I tell you that are everywhere? If you have uttered the words “there are no good men out there” I have this question for you: Will you know him when you see him? There seem to be three common reasons why women feel they aren’t connecting […]
It’s your first or second date and you’re really digging a guy. You’re feeling those butterflies. Should you pay attention to the CHEMISTRY?
If you’re looking for a loving, committed, lifetime partner but keep picking players, narcissists, or non-committals…the clear answer is NO! Chemistry is your enemy!
Do you have men in your life who adore you? You have a great time with them. You laugh together, maybe they want to know about you and your life, they even say stuff like “you’re so great I can’t believe you’re still single!” That’s pretty cool, right? But then…single men ignore you. […]
I can say — completely unashamedly — that my years as a married woman have been the absolute best of my life. Hands down. First, I had to ask myself the question: “Why Can’t I Find Love? It took me many years to solve this mystery, but it doesn’t have to take you that long, […]
Dirty John was a podcast and is now a mini-series on Bravo about a middle-aged woman who meets a man online and enters into a whirlwind courtship. It ends horribly, practically destroying her and her entire family. Dirty John is a cautionary tale, to say the least. What can a single woman over-40 looking for love using […]
If you are a woman dating after 40, it’s likely you had at least a few breakups that have left you feeling brokenhearted. So…how DO you get over your ex? Maybe you’re going through a breakup now. Maybe you broke up years ago. Maybe you’re still aching over that intense month-long “thing” you had with […]
“Intuition is truly a feminine quality, but women should not mistake rash conclusions for this gift.” Minna Antrim How much should you pay attention to your instincts about dating and love? The other day I was listening to my friend tell me about her 25 minute “date” with this guy “who had nothing going for […]
Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives as they wait for some fantasy man. We usually don’t even know we’re doing it. Finally having this pointed out to me in my early 40s was a huge part of my transition from a pretty happy single gal to, at age 47, […]
Do you have friends with benefits? In other words, a sexual relationship with someone you have no intention of ever committing to? Or maybe they have no intention of ever committing to you? It may seem like a very “grownup” thing to do – getting your intimacy needs met while still dating other men. But […]
Definition: “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn Sounds simple and kinda easy, right? Wrong! Why do you think Zen Buddhist monks meditate for decades to get to the place of mindfulness and nirvana? You do not have to be a monk to use […]
