Understanding Men

Why Do Married Men Want Me But Single Men Don’t? [Video]

   Do you have men in your life who adore you? You have a great time with them. You laugh together, maybe they want to know about you and your life, they even say… Read more

Should I call Him

Should I Call Him if He Doesn’t Call Me? Advice for Women Over 40.

Don’t you hate when he promised you a date but leaves you sitting there wondering if you’re really going out? I mean you are both over 40, so why still play these “who should call”… Read more

Fear sabotaging your love life

Is Fear Sabotaging Your Love Life? Here’s How To Stop That. Now.

Are your expectations of men based on old stories and past hurts? Good chance they are and it’s likely that fear is sabotaging your love life. Give this a read to see if you’re fears… Read more

Be more feminine

6 Ways to Be More Feminine: Awaken the Tenderness Inside You

You know how I’m always encouraging (ok nagging) you to be more feminine when you are with men? The female, womanly part is inside all of us, but most often it’s locked away under a… Read more

Delicious Life Lessons I Learned from My Father

Another Father’s Day without my Dad, who left us in 2012. He was a good man, my Pop. His last several years were difficult, filled with numerous medical issues and a wife who was unable to deal… Read more

How to let him know you are interested

How to Let Him Know You Are Interested

You see an online profile of a guy who seems great. Or you show up to your coffee date and wowza, he’s way cuter, nicer, smarter, funnier than you expected. How to let him know… Read more

ask a man for what you want

How To Get What You Want From Men (So You Can Both Be Happy)

If you don’t ask…you don’t get. This is one of my Dad’s favorite lines and I think the key to being happy with men. Dad’s premise was that it is your responsibility to state what… Read more

How to Ask For What You Want from a Man

Want to be happy with a man? Learn how to ask for what you want in a kind, non-threatening way, is the strongest tool you can use in a relationship. Here’s how.

He ghosted you

He Ghosted You. Why and WTF Should You Do Now?

You went on a date or two or three. You liked him, and he seemed into you. Then, without warning…no return texts, no calls, he even blocked you on Facebook. That bastard…he ghosted you! Welcome… Read more

profile photos

Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

Posting online profile photos can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women dating after 40. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is… Read more