Online Dating

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Online Profile Tips for Mature Women- A Guy’s Perspective

I hope you’re online, especially now with COVID 19. Today I’m giving you online profile tips for mature women (like you!) who are looking for a real grownup man. These tips come directly from a… Read more

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Tweak Your Online Dating Profile This Way and Attract Men You Like

Do you want to know the key to writing an online dating profile to catch the eye of the type of good, grownup men you want to meet? Be. Real. That’s it. When you express… Read more

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Want to Find Love? Smart Women Don’t Make Love Happen – They LET Love Happen

The women I am lucky enough to coach come to me because they want to find love. They have had career success, family success, and they’ve already ticked a lot off their bucket list.  Now they are… Read more

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Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

Posting online profile photos can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women dating after 40. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is… Read more

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How Long Should I Wait to Have Sex?

There is a lot at stake at the beginning of a relationship, so it pays to ask yourself the question, “How long should I wait to have sex after I’ve met a new man?” Sex… Read more

Finding New Friends Over 50

Finding New Friends Over 50: Feeling Lonely? You Are Not Alone

Girlfriend, do you need some new girlfriends?  One of the biggest challenges my clients have is finding new friends over 50. Most of their girlfriends at this age are either seriously coupled or they skew… Read more

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Should You Lie About Your Age in Your Profile? (Video)

Here is an email I recently received: “I just got up my courage and took a look at the dating site Our Time, and here is one of my big concerns: I’m 68 but most… Read more

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Dirty John and the Lessons for Mature Women Dating

Dirty John was a podcast and is now a mini-series on Bravo about a middle-aged woman who meets a man online and enters into a whirlwind courtship. It ends horribly, practically destroying her and her entire family.… Read more

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Should You Date a Separated Man?

Should you date a separated man? Let’s put it this way… I did. Then I married him. So, my answer is, Hell Yes! To be clear, I would never encourage you to go out looking… Read more

How to Avoid Being Scammed or Catfished Online

This is the number one fear single women over 40 have about using online dating. They worry about being scammed or catfished. ‘Catfishing’ is a term for the process of luring people into false relationships, or… Read more