Communication

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Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

Posting online profile photos can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women dating after 40. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is… Read more

Dting a Widower

Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… Read more

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Should You Date a Separated Man?

Should you date a separated man? Let’s put it this way… I did. Then I married him. So, my answer is, Hell Yes! To be clear, I would never encourage you to go out looking… Read more

5 Reasons Women Should Talk About Kavanaugh on a Date

The Kavanaugh hearings are freaking painful. Personally, I’ve tried to go on some kind of news blackout but it’s unavoidable. It’s everywhere in the news. (Real and fake news *choke*.) Everyone is talking about it.… Read more

What Will You Have to Give Up In a Relationship?

I asked my Facebook community “What do you enjoy doing as a single woman that you would NEVER want to give up in a relationship? I wondered because I know that before I was married… Read more

Is He Into Me

Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first “hello” or glance across the room. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates from there.… Read more

Are Your Expectations of Men Realistic? Straight Talk for Grownup Women.

Have you ever wondered “are my expectations of men realistic?” I can tell you with 99% certainty that, no, they are not. And that may be the very thing that is keeping you single. Not… Read more

Are Your Expectations of Men Based in Fear?

Are your expectations of men based on fear? Good chance they are and that’s likely sabotaging your relationships with good men. Give this a read to see if you’re fears are getting in the way… Read more

He Doesn’t Hear Me When I Talk – What Should I Do?

Dating Advice for Women over 40: I talk, but he doesn’t hear me. What should I do? I provide all my private coaching clients with a 911 call option so they can call me when… Read more

How to Tell Him the Bad Stuff on Dates (And Should You?)

One of the key differences between dating now versus when you were younger is that now you most likely have some baggage. So, how to tell him the bad stuff when you are dating a… Read more