Kamala Harris and I have some important Love Lessons for you if you’re a mature single woman looking for love. My proud lefty, progressive, feminist self is over the moon with the woman who will be the next Vice President of the United States. I personally cannot wait to watch her verbally kick Mike Pence’s […]
Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing that man-thing again seems akin to putting your hand on a hot stove. Why the hell would you do that […]
Ugh. Another Valentine’s Day. What if you KNEW this would be your last Valentine’s Day as a single woman? The last one spent with “me, myself, and I,” with a pack of single girlfriends or alone on your couch? How would that change how you interact, what you choose to do, and how you feel […]
This time of year can be joyous…or – if you are single during the holidays – it can be pretty crappy. We get to eat more, work less, shop till we drop, and frolic with friends and family. Also, it’s a time of reflection; and as we count our blessings, we may think about what’s […]
Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing that man-thing again seems akin to putting your hand on a hot stove. Why the hell would you do that […]
You’re dating a man and noticing his flaws. How do you know when it’s time to break up with him? Here’s how you make a good decision.
This week the USA celebrates its Independence Day. That was a day I used to celebrate for myself every day: INDEPENDENCE! Now, after 14 years of being married to a man who values my independence AND opens pickle jars for me, lends his fine brain to my decision-making, and generally has my back…I am proud […]
In the wake of this past Mother’s day, I wrote a very personal message to the women on my mailing list about how to embrace your incredibly powerful mature femininity. (If you’re not yet on my list download the report below!) It’s time I share it with you. It’s long. It’s about healing. It’s about […]
Today, on Juneteenth, I’m publishing this letter that I recently sent to the members of my Date Like a Grownup community claiming my stand on the Black Lives Matter movement. If you don’t have the time to read the full letter, the synopsis is this: I stand 100% with the black community and the Black […]
Do you have men in your life who adore you? You have a great time with them. You laugh together, maybe they want to know about you and your life, they even say stuff like “you’re so great I can’t believe you’re still single!” That’s pretty cool, right? But then…single men ignore you. […]
