Sex

Don’t Use the Coronavirus as an Excuse to Stop Dating and Looking for Love

Yes, the Coronavirus threat is real, but don’t use it as an excuse to stop dating…NOW is when we need love the most! As a woman who married for the first time at age 47,… Read more

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How Long Should I Wait to Have Sex?

There is a lot at stake at the beginning of a relationship, so it pays to ask yourself the question, “How long should I wait to have sex after I’ve met a new man?” Sex… Read more

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Fu*k Harvey Weinstein: Loving Fearlessly is Our Best Revenge

Let’s talk about the multiple big fat ugly-ass elephants in the room. Harvey Weinstein, Matt Lauer, multiple big cheeses and CEOs…they’re popping up like a sickening game of whack-a-mole. Finally we are whacking the shit… Read more

Dating After Breast Cancer: How to Talk About Your Boobs

In recognition of October being breast cancer awareness month, I am addressing this very common dilemma of  dating after breast cancer. Go here for more information about breast cancer awareness. Today I’m sharing a question from… Read more

Are “Friends with Benefits” Ruining Your Love Life?

Do you have friends with benefits? In other words, a sexual relationship with someone you have no intention of ever committing to? Or maybe they have no intention of ever committing to you? It may… Read more

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Good Sex and Aging Bodies: 5 Tips To Go From Snooze to Shazam

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… Read more

Should I Say Yes and Be Exclusive? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… Read more

How to Talk to a Man About Something That’s Bugging You (and Save Your Relationship!)

My client Rebecca had been dating Jim for six months. They had been exclusive almost since the day they met, and their relationship was moving along quite nicely. She really dug him, and they talked… Read more

A Single Man’s Thoughts About Your Body (Part 2)

This is a second post from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  (You can read Part 1 here.) After experiencing so many women put themselves down, pull back from intimacy and not accept his compliments, he decided to… Read more

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What Do Mature Single Men Find Sexy? (A Man’s Thoughts About Your Body Part 1)

This post is from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  He took his time to share his experience and point of view on what mature single men find sexy. It’s not like what you think or see… Read more