Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing that man-thing again seems akin to putting your hand on a hot stove. Why the hell would you do that […]
Ugh. Another Valentine’s Day. What if you KNEW this would be your last Valentine’s Day as a single woman? The last one spent with “me, myself, and I,” with a pack of single girlfriends or alone on your couch? How would that change how you interact, what you choose to do, and how you feel […]
This time of year can be joyous…or – if you are single during the holidays – it can be pretty crappy. We get to eat more, work less, shop till we drop, and frolic with friends and family. Also, it’s a time of reflection; and as we count our blessings, we may think about what’s […]
I went to a great party last weekend given by our dear friends, Heidi and Jack. There I was at dinner and I couldn’t help but marvel at the 7 happy couples sitting around the table…they all seemed to be quite connected. As they sat next to each other they had ongoing eye contact, listened […]
Since I specialize in helping women over 40 find love, clients often ask about dating a widower. Is it a waste of time? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: Widowers are some of the best, most eligible, grownup men out there. One of the most […]
Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing that man-thing again seems akin to putting your hand on a hot stove. Why the hell would you do that […]
He ghosted you. You went on a date or two or three. You liked him, and he seemed into you. Then, without warning…no return texts, no calls, he even blocked you on Facebook. That bastard. Welcome to a very large club of smart women who thought they might had finally met The One…but didn’t. There […]
Continuing from my last two posts, a great way to meet men is to use online dating. When you meet for the first time after connecting online, though, it’s just a meeting; it’s not dating. Some of these online dating first date meetings will turn into dates, and then some dates into relationships. Gotta love online […]
Ah…you’ve connected with a man on match.com, tinder, eharmony.com or one of the other zillions of ways, and it’s time for your first date. Okay, let me tell you some truth: online dating first dates are not really dates. Whaaat? Read on…
Sometime you can’t get men to talk on dates. But I hear stories all the time about men talking too much on dates. They blab their heads off as the woman sits quietly nodding and “uh-hu-ing.” (Notice I didn’t say she was listening.) Inevitably, these two will never have another date…unless the woman exercises […]
