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You are not too old.
It is not too late.

Your grownup love story is waiting…

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Want to know your Grownup Dating Personality?

Hi, I’m Bobbi Palmer.

Founder of Date Like a Grownup.
I became a First-Time Bride in 2006. I was 47 years old.

Being a woman dating after 40 can suck. I’ve lived it all. Wondering why everyone else gets to be loved but you. The years without being touched by a man. The men who lie, manipulate and disappear. The narcissists and the too-nice guys you wish you could like. Being obsessed, hating men, hating yourself, giving up. Trying to believe that you don’t need a man to be happy but, in your heart, knowing that’s a lie.

After 25+ years of that bullshit, I got honest with myself. I was the common denominator in my decades of sad stories. It took me a few years of sometimes difficult inner-work, but I finally learned how to love myself and men. I also learned how to Be Loved. (Yes, we have to learn that too.)

Yep, in 2024, about 18 years later, he and I divorced. Most of those years were lovely. I felt Safe. Loved. Special.

Then I didn't.

So...here I am back with you. Dating. Single. But now it's so different. Because I still feel safe, loved, and special. As a Single Woman.

I’m so happy you’re here. When you accept my help, you will learn what I did, but in a MUCH simpler and faster way! I’ve helped thousands of women around the world not only write their grownup love story...but learn how to love and value themselves with or without a man. Now it’s your turn. Let’s get this party started!
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"Learning to date like a grownup really does lead to love. He is just wonderful and he makes me feel so special. We are both excited and curious about the future, which we know will be together. If I had not worked with you I know for sure that I would not have this wonderful relationship."
Tracey
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"Through your guidance, I met my husband online. Showing me the process of clearly defining who I was and what I was looking for. With that clarity, I was able to push away the cobwebs and know with more certainty what was important to me."
—T. L
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The 3 Principles of Dating Like a Grownup:

1. Balance your head and heart.

2. Show kindness to yourself and the men you meet.

3. Take responsibility for your actions and outcomes
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