You are not too old.
It is not too late.

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Hi, I’m Bobbi Palmer

Founder of Date Like a Grownup

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This is me after becoming a First-Time Bride in 2006. I was 47 years old.

Being a woman dating after 40 can suck. I’ve lived it all. Wondering why everyone else gets to be loved but you. The years without being touched by a man. The men who lie, manipulate and disappear. The narcissists and the too-nice guys you wish you could like. Being obsessed, hating men, hating yourself, giving up. Trying to believe that you don’t need a man to be happy but, in your heart, knowing that’s a lie.

After 25+ years of that bullshit, I got honest with myself. I was the common denominator in my decades of sad stories. It took me a few years of sometimes difficult inner-work, but I finally learned how to love myself and men. I also learned how to Be Loved. (Yes, we have to learn that too.)

I’m so happy you’re here. When you accept my help, you will learn what I did, but in a MUCH simpler and faster way! I’ve helped thousands of women around the world write their grownup love story. Now it’s your turn. Let’s get this party started! Read more…

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The 3 Principles of Dating Like a Grownup:

1. Balance your head and heart.

2. Show kindness to yourself and the men you meet.

3. Take responsibility for your actions and outcomes.

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New Intimate Coaching Program Making News

Hi. This is Nancy here, writing for Bobbi who is bopping around Europe with her hubs. They will be celebrating their 12-year anniversary in Venice in a few days! Since she’s on vacation, I’m taking… read the full post…

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What Will You Have to Give Up In a Relationship?

I asked my Facebook community “What do you enjoy doing as a single woman that you would NEVER want to give up in a relationship? I wondered because I know that before I was married… read the full post…


How to Avoid Being Scammed or Catfished Online

This is the number one fear single women over 40 have about using online dating. They worry about being scammed or catfished. ‘Catfishing’ is a term for the process of luring people into false relationships, or… read the full post…

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