Dating after 40 Success Stories

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love After 50 Success Story: Shari B.

JOE AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 1/2 YEARS. WITHOUT BOBBI, I WOULD NOT HAVE RECOGNIZED HIM AS THE PERFECT PARTNER FOR ME.

Before working with Bobbi, I had no problem meeting men, just not the right kind of man. Disappointed and heart broken for 7 years, it seemed like I could never meet the kind of man who wanted a long term relationship, was thoughtful of me, was someone I could trust, and who would make a great husband.

Being a single mother to a lovely young and impressionable daughter, I needed and wanted to be a good example to her. I was more like the example to her of what "not" to do. I longed to be in a healthy, loving, respectful, fun relationship, but felt defeated and hopeless.

Bobbi taught me the most valuable lesson: It’s all about Me. My focus shifted from does he like me, to do I LIKE HIM? With Bobbi’s coaching and thought provoking questions, I gained the confidence I was missing. Best of all, I learned to let go of my “list” and honed in on how to pick a man with my grownup self instead of how I was picking...like a teenager.

Joe and I have now been together for 3 ½ years and he invites me to feel all the feelings I’ve fantasized about, and more! Without Bobbi, I would not have recognized Joe as the perfect partner for me – but he is exactly that – perfect for me! Bobbi’s coaching gave me a new perspective and changed my life forever. - Shari B, 53

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love After 50 Success Story: Lisa P.

We have a very happy, peaceful, real relationship and I still get butterflies when I think of him.

I'm checking in to say that we are still blissfully happy together, it will be two years in March! Bobbi, I cannot tell you how grateful I am to you for helping me find such a kind, caring and wonderful man.

We have a very happy, peaceful, real relationship and I still get butterflies when I think of him. I truly believe I could not have found him without your guidance. I especially value your focus on kindness and femininity. And also how to ask for what you need. And the Fixing Your Man Picker approach is brilliant - that visualization you did at the beginning of the course still stays with me. And I know it's HIM!

I never imagined how happy one can be with the right man! I got very used to putting my needs aside in the past and being appeasing. I thought I could never have such a grownup, giving, loving relationship like this...but you proved me wrong. Thank you Thank you! Love, L.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love After 60 Success Story: Karen C.

I TOOK A LEAP OF FAITH AND HIRED BOBBI AS MY PERSONAL DATING COACH. THAT WAS THE BEST MONEY I EVER SPENT.

I was an attractive, successful, intelligent, fun, active 64-year-old woman. I had been on several different dating sites and dating a bunch of men over the years without success. I had a 25-year marriage and two long-term relationships that didn't work out.

Frankly, when I found Bobbi I was burned out, a little bitter and confused. It was apparent that what I was doing with men wasn’t working, but I didn’t know what would work. And I certainly wasn’t getting any younger. I took a leap of faith and hired Bobbi as my personal dating coach. That was the BEST money I have ever spent.

Bobbi is intuitive and so supportive, and through her guidance and encouragement, I started seeing things differently. What a difference she made in the way I think about men and myself! I felt much more in control of the type of man I wanted and deserved. And I discovered some key things that were holding me back.

I love her kindness, patience, and exceptional coaching advice. In just a short time she moved me along from being scared to having fun dating.

Bobbi guided me through the whole online dating experience. I started meeting some quality, fabulous men for the first time in years and eventually met the love of my life! We’ve been together for over 4 years now and I couldn’t be happier. He’s my travel companion, lover, friend, confidant and so much more.

Having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. Thank you very much, Bobbi. You are the Best Dating Coach Ever!” - Karen

Note: A year or so after this note Larry and I attended Karen and Norman's beautiful Commitment Ceremony.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Giselle

I AM THE HAPPIEST WOMAN ALIVE!

I reached my wish thanks to you, Bobbi!! I was at my lowest ever when I met you. Your training and advice were absolutely crucial to my development. You taught me I had to change. I had to learn to love myself and be my own best friend. It was not an easy road. I had to learn to be patient and persist. Giving up was not an option.

It was the beginning of a long but necessary journey. I knew I wanted to meet the RIGHT man. I did not want to face the rest of my life alone. And slowly, amidst some tears, I got out of my own way. I faced health issues and a cross-country move. Those issues or events taught me lessons of patience and appreciation. Gratitude, persistence and compassion. My focus didn't budge. And of course lots of prayer. Faith in my desire led me step by step.

Willson and I happily tied the knot in January 2017 at a beautiful vineyard. My prayers were answered beautifully. I am the happiest woman alive. And shall continue forever.

Many blessings to you for believing in me and teaching me to believe in myself and in my dearest dream. Much love, Giselle

(A special note: Giselle and Wilsson maintained a long distance relationship for well over a year. Yes, it can work! )

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love After 40 Success Story: Rebecca K.

I'M VERY EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE THAT WE WILL BE GETTING MARRIED IN APRIL ON A CRUISE TO THE CARIBBEAN!!!

You are an angel in my life, and it's no accident our paths have crossed! I'm so grateful for your guidance, Bobbi! Thank you so much! I'm blissfully in love and having the time of my life with this amazing man! I definitely would not be where I am today without your guidance and support! Thank you so much for helping me to manifest my dreams into reality!! - Rebecca K, 40

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: T.L.

IT WAS YOU WHO HELPED ME SEE CLEARLY WHO I AM AS A WOMAN AND WHAT I WANTED IN A MAN.

Hi Bobbi! It was largely because of you and your guidance that I met my husband online through Plenty of Fish. You guided our group through the process of clearly defining who we were and what we were looking for. With that clarity, I was able to push away the cobwebs and know with more certainty what was important to me.

In January of 2016, I was going to the beach and asked him if he wanted to accompany me, just to have a pleasant outing. He said yes and, as I got to know him, our pleasant acquaintance became a romantic relationship.

I noticed that when I decided to marry him, the decision was made with both my head and my heart. We are as in love and committed as ever, and our first year wedding anniversary is coming up in May. So thank you because you definitely helped make all of this happen. It was you who helped me see clearly who I am as a woman and what I wanted in a man. Much love to you.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love After 50 Success Story: Jeanine S.

WORK WITH BOBBI IN PRIVATE COACHING SO SHE CAN HELP YOU START MEETING HIGH QUALITY MEN AND LEAD YOU TO LOVE!

I admit it. I was a skeptic. I was convinced that no datable men would be interested in a "fluffy" 46-year-old career spinster...also that online dating was evil. But I was wrong, wrong, wrong. After I completed Steps 1-3 of her 6-Step Find Hope Find Him system (which is brilliant, btw!), I finally went online. Bobbi practically had to drag me kicking and screaming. She wrote me a kick-butt profile, and I started getting emails within literally minutes after posting it.

Bobbi taught me how to identify the scammers and players and showed me the magic formula for writing emails that got responses that led to phone calls that resulted in dates. (Yep, real dates with actual cute men who have jobs.) Within the first two weeks I had dates with three different men!

It's been about 3 months since I first went online, and am now dating a great guy* who thinks I'm fantastic. We are having a great time going on picnics, seeing movies, and get this -- taking dancing lessons. Yes, dancing lessons. I have Bobbi to thank for all of it. Do yourself a favor, don't wait any longer. Work with Bobbi in private coaching through her 6-Step system so she can help you start meeting high quality men and lead you to love!- Jeanine S, 56

UPDATE: In March, 2014 I was honored to perform Jeanine and Ron’s wedding. (Yah, the great guy she was talking about.)

She wrote: "Take it from a former unhappy single girl who is now married to the love of her life! Bobbi Knows Her Stuff!!"

 

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Love After 60 Success Story: Pat

LAST NIGHT I BECAME ENGAGED TO AN AMAZING MAN. HE HAS MY BACK, AS I HAVE HIS. HE'S AFFECTIONATE, COMMUNICATIVE AND GENEROUS.

I’m so grateful for all the help and support Bobbi's teaching over the past few years. Finding myself widowed after a 35-year marriage, I re-entered the dating scene feeling clueless and soon fell flat on my face until finding her. It took a lot of courage to keep getting up, to learn to enjoy the process, to stay hopeful, vulnerable, and to balance my heart and my head.

Last night I became engaged to an amazing man. He has my back, as I have his. He’s affectionate, communicative, and generous. We both had our lists (based on values and character, and life goals) and they matched so well. I stayed open to men who weren’t my “type” and am grateful I did. There were times I was settling for less than I needed and there were other times I felt like quitting. In fact, I was in a previous LTR that I eventually ended after realizing he wasn't as committed as I.

With Bobbi's support, I got right back out there. I’m still learning, facing my fears, but the reward of doing so has been so worth it. Thank you for holding my hand on this journey, Bobbi. I want to encourage each of you to do the work, get Bobbi's expert and incredibly compassionate support and encouragement, and be open to new possibilities. Your man is out there too! -Pat D. (And yes, that's her wedding pic!)

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Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love After 40 Success Story: Jeannette T.

WORKING WITH BOBBI CHANGED EVERYTHING! HE SUPPORTS ME IN WAYS I'VE NOT EXPERIENCED BEFORE, WE HAVE A STRONG FOUNDATION OF SIMILAR FAITH, AND WE MEET EACH OTHERS' NEEDS.

Before working with Bobbi, I was feeling incredibly stuck. I'd been divorced for 3 years and fumbled around with online dating for about 6 months without success. My lack of success made me feel like I couldn't ever find love – and my negative self-talk constantly came knocking.

Working with Bobbi changed everything! I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man that I met online. There’s NO WAY I would have given him a chance prior to working with Bobbi.

He supports me in ways I’ve not experienced before, we have a strong foundation of similar faith, and we meet each other’s needs – everything that really matters to me. Bobbi helped open my eyes to be able to see what would really make me happy. And it's him!

Financially speaking, it was challenging to spend that much on myself on this program. But how could I put a worth on having more self-confidence and knowledge that my life going forward would be so much better than the past? That was priceless and I’m so glad I made the investment... to think I would have missed My Man!   - Jeannette T, 46

UPDATE FROM JEANETTE: Lance and I looked at engagement rings today! We are planning our wedding for summer 2017.

I would never have seen the amazing man Lance is without your guidance. I learned so much about myself and about what I wanted in a man while working with you through the Love program. Thank you for such an amazing gift. See you at my wedding! Happy days, ~

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