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I get to try all new tools she taught me with my grown up, sassy self to find the right husband who makes me happy.

Taking Bobbi's workshop on dating was a mind blowing experience. I have been on a dating break, but I’m happily getting started again. More than anything Bobbi taught me that dating can be fun — I can make it that way! I get to try all new tools she taught me with my grown up, sassy self to find the right husband who makes me happy. I get to decide how I feel on dates, who makes me feel comfortable or adored and who doesn't. Bobbi expertly teaches you how to open up a conversation on a date so that you really find out who someone is and what motivates them, as well as laying out what is important to you in bite size "nuggets". It is truly a fascinating system that works, and I for one cannot wait to continue using these tools in my my brand new home in California! -Alice, 50

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story

I'M DATING ONLINE FOR THE FIRST TIME AT AGE 62!

Bobbi, I've had wonderful response from the profile I carefully constructed with you! I took new pictures just for this purpose using the do’s and don’ts formula you gave us through your Get Online, Get Noticed, Find Love webinar. With all of this I began dating online for the first time in my life at 62. The profile and pictures have been attracting so many great men. And I’ve met a great man. So far it’s promising and I certainly would not have been able to do this without your support and the support of the women I’ve met through your course. Thank you! - Anonymous

Before working with Bobbi I was on a 6-year break from dating and feeling hopeless!

I loved Bobbi's nature- that big sister who's been there, who will empathize (so you feel heard) but not let you wallow in it (so that you can make the changes you need to).

When I started Bobbi’s 6-Step program, I was dating someone I was crazy about. Operative word being crazy - all based on chemistry and who I imagined he could be. (But he wasn’t!) As part of my homework one week, I joined a golf club meetup. A couple weeks in, I met a great guy who initially did not give me butterflies, but who kept showing up for me in ways I'd only dreamed about.

Greg and I have been together ever since...about a year. We talk a LOT and he's told me a number of times that he can't believe I can bring up things on my mind in such a mature way - and it's allowed him to feel like there's space for him to do the same. (I learned how to do that from Bobbi.)

Bobbi helps you discover the best parts of yourself, and get in touch with what you really want from and in a relationship so that you know right away if something is working. You feel happy and secure, and not as attached to the outcome because you know that you're being your complete self! But then the outcome is fantastic anyway...love! - Christy M.

BEFORE YOUR ADVICE, I WAS GETTING PROPOSITIONED FROM MEN WHO WERE ONLY INTERESTED IN FLINGS - NOW I'M WITH A GEM!

Bobbi changed my dating pool with my online profile and pictures. I took her advice and changed my pics. I met Chris online. He was so handsome, sweet, charming - an old school gentleman who allowed me to be a total lady, but there were a couple of things that I started to get hung up on. I remembered Bobbi's advice to take the whole package into account. And I’m glad I did! Before working with her I would have hastily dismissed a potential good guy. Looking at the entire man has paid off! We’ve been together since March 2013. He’s a rock star and we’re in love. Thank you, Bobbi!
- Grace

Before your advice I was getting propositioned from men who were only interested in flings.

One great big thing I got from working with you – and it’s changed my dating pool - was my online profile and pictures. You said that if women like your profile it isn’t very good. Well, women liked my profile. Before your advice I was getting propositioned from men who were only interested in flings. After you helped me change my profile, men who were more relationship oriented approached me. I met Chris online. He asked me out for cocktails and I was instantly smitten. He was so handsome, sweet, charming - an old school gentleman who allowed me to be a total lady (like you helped me be) . He played no games. While there are a couple of things that I started to get hung up on, I remembered your advice to take the whole package into account. And I’m glad I did! Before working with you I would have hastily dismissed a potential good guy. Looking at the entire man has paid off! We’ve been together since March 2013. He’s a rock star and we’re in love. Thank you, Bobbi!
- Grace

Working with Bobbi in her Love Program changed everything! I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man that I met online.

Before working with Bobbi, I was feeling incredibly stuck. I'd been divorced for 3 years and fumbled around with online dating for about 6 months without success. My lack of success made me feel like I couldn't ever find love – and my negative self talk constantly came knocking. But working with Bobbi in her Love Program changed everything! Not only did I learn how to put myself out there online, I'm getting attention just walking around at the grocery store and in the day-to-day. That's never happened and I can enjoy it now!

Best part is, I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man that I met online. There’s NO WAY I would have given him a chance prior to working with Bobbi. While my boyfriend isn't that GQ "shiny" man that my 18-year-old self was looking for, he is the best guy for me! He supports me in ways I’ve not experienced before, we have a strong foundation of similar faith, and we meet each other’s needs – everything that really matters to me. Bobbi helped open my eyes to be able to see what would really make me happy. And it's him!

Financially speaking, it was challenging to spend that much on myself on this program. But how could I put a worth on having more self-confidence and knowledge that my life going forward would be so much better than the past? That was priceless and I’m so glad I made the investment... to think I would have missed My Man! ~ Jeannette

What a difference you have made in the way I think about men and myself. WOW, Bobbi. What a difference you have made in the way I think about men and myself. I love your […]

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Shari B.

JUST LAST NIGHT HE SAID HE WOULD LIKE US TO BE MARRIED WITHIN THE YEAR! AND I HAVE TO AGREE WITH HIM... WE FEEL REALLY GREAT TOGETHER.

Bobbi's advice was absolutely perfect. I was thinking about this yesterday: out of all my friends, Bobbi—who I have never met face to face—has given me the best guidance ever! Joe IS such a quality man, and I am soooo very happy. Our relationship just keeps getting better and better all the time. Bobbi is perceptive, sees through BS - always with diplomacy & kindness. Get ready to focus, or learn how to, on yourself and what you want. She is a true resource. Having been there, and able to transfer what she learned about/for herself, she is the master at providing the tools women need. And I know that her clients who "go away happy" are an honest thrill for her. - Shari B, 49

We’ve been together for over 4 years now and I couldn’t be happier. He’s my travel companion, lover, friend, confidante and so much more.

I was an attractive, successful, intelligent, fun, active 64-year-old woman. I had been on several different dating sites and dating a bunch of men over the years without success. I had a 25-year marriage and two long-term relationships that didn't work out.

Frankly, when I found Bobbi I was burned out, a little bitter and confused. It was apparent that what I was doing with men wasn’t working, but I didn’t know what would work. And I certainly wasn’t getting any younger.

I took a leap of faith and hired Bobbi as my personal dating coach. That was the BEST money I have ever spent.

Bobbi is intuitive and so supportive, and through her guidance and encouragement I started seeing things differently. I felt much more in control of the type of man I wanted and deserved. She showed me that what I thought I wanted was not going to make me feel happy and loved.
I discovered some key things that were holding me back.

What a difference she made in the way I think about men and myself. I love her kindness, patience, and exceptional coaching advice. In just a short time she moved me along from being scared to having fun dating.

Bobbi guided me through the whole online dating experience. I started meeting some quality, fabulous men for the first time in years and eventually met the love of my life! We’ve been together for over 4 years now and I couldn’t be happier. He’s my travel companion, lover, friend, confidante and so much more.

Having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. Thank you very much, Bobbi. You are the Best Dating Coach Ever!” - Karen

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: S.M.

YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING!

Bobbi – I just have to drop you a line and tell you how brilliant your advice is. I listened to module 1 and 2 of your Get Online, Get Noticed, Find Love course, wrote my nuggets, posted them last night on match and instantly got flooded with queries. Then I panicked. Now I have to listen to module 3 and learn how to respond. You really know what you are doing!
Thank you, S.M.

I feel excited about the possibilities of having the marriage I've always wanted

I have never felt so "validated" in the dating process. I have been looking for years to "be better at dating", read tons of books, etc. and have been getting very little positive results. The information I am learning is causing me to deeply reflect and regroup my actions. I feel more proactive in choosing the right guy to date! Most of all, I feel excited about the possibilities of having the marriage I've always wanted (after many years I have forgotten about that dream I used to have when I was younger) and now have the tools and skills to do that. Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving me the HOPE I needed!!!!

- Lou Anne

Bootcamp Graduate: Louise, 52, Manchester, UK

It’s not painful anymore. Dating seems new and really fun!

As you know when I started your course I was on a much needed dating break. But I jumped back online in week 2 and it’s amazing…all of the sudden I’m seeing those men you taught us about. I ignored them before but now they look like great candidates. It’s been five weeks, I’ve had six dates and two are Date #2s! It’s not painful anymore. Dating seems new and really fun!

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Patricia D.

I FEEL FREER, MORE TRUSTING, AND COURAGEOUS TO ENJOY WHAT I'M EXPERIENCING IN THIS RELATIONSHIP!

I had just begun to date after my husband of 35 years passed away. It had been 4 years and I didn't know where to begin. I will always be grateful for having found Bobbi. I appreciate her honesty spoken with compassion, her humor, and that she specifically addresses the needs of the older woman.

After taking the "Fix Your Man Picker" course, I met an amazing man! We share values such as fidelity, family, kindness, generosity, spirituality and a healthy lifestyle.​​​​​​​ We are going to Italy together next week! I feel freer - more trusting and courageous - to enjoy what I'm experiencing in this relationship.

I can't tell you enough how much Bobbi helped me. She took the fear out and gave me specific tools to communicate with men and actually enjoy the dating process. She has increased my confidence considerably, my friends have noticed the change and my now single friends look to me for help.
~ Pat D., 62

WORKING WITH BOBBI GAVE ME A 180 TURN ON HOW I WAS LOOKING AT MY SITUATION AND FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A LONG TIME THAT FLAME OF LOVE IS BEING FANNED INSTEAD OF STAMPED OUT.

I recognized myself in what Bobbi was describing - protecting a small flame of hope for love but stuck in my views and attitudes of my twenties. I love Bobbi’s passion and care and how she has really looked into what happens for women of our age. I found her coaching full of tangible, sensible and life-affirming ways to get out of hopelessness and into positive action. Samantha D, 49

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Samantha D.

I FOUND HER COURSES FULL OF TANGIBLE, SENSIBLE AND LIFE AFFIRMING WAYS TO GET OUT OF THE HOPELESS AND INTO POSITIVE ACTION.

I have been single for many years and came across the Date Like a Grownup website while surfing for advice on getting into a relationship. I recognized myself in what Bobbi was describing - protecting a small flame of hope for love but stuck in my views and attitudes of my twenties. I did Bobbi’s Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp and Get Online, Get Noticed, Find Love courses and so many lights switched on! I did a 180 turn on how I was looking at my situation and for the first time in a long time that flame of love is being fanned stronger instead of being stamped out. I love Bobbi’s passion and care and how she has really looked into what happens for women of our age. I found her courses full of tangible, sensible and life affirming ways to get out of hopelessness and into positive action. Samantha D, 49

Wow, this is what it feels like to have a man who truly adores me ...

One month ago, I went out on a first date with a guy who seemed very nice online. He wasn't a guy who would have made it past my old list, but he was obviously happy to be there, and I decided to have fun and "lean in" to the date. Boy, was I surprised! We had so many things in common, and connected on so many levels (intelligence, sense of humor, family values, to name a few). By the end of the evening, I was much more into him, and when he moved in for a kiss, I didn't hesitate to reciprocate. We both took our profiles down the next day. Wow, this is what it feels like to have a man who truly adores me and will do anything to make me happy! I am amazed at how "easy" (relatively speaking, I had only returned to dating a couple of months earlier) it was to find the guy who ticked off everything on my new DLAGU list. Thanks to Bobbi, I knew what to watch for, and I gave this nice (but not a 9 or 10) guy a chance to show me his stuff.

JOE AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 1/2 YEARS AND HE'S PERFECT FOR ME! WITHOUT BOBBI I WOULD NOT HAVE RECOGNIZED HIM AS MY PERFECT MATCH.

Before working with Bobbi, I had no problem meeting men, just not the right kind of man. Disappointed and heartbroken for 7 years, it seemed like I could never meet the kind of man who wanted a long term relationship, was thoughtful of me, was someone I could trust, or who would make a great husband.

Being a single mother to a lovely young and impressionable daughter, I needed and wanted to be a good example to her. I was more like the example to her of what "not" to do. I longed to be in a healthy, loving, respectful, fun relationship, but felt defeated and hopeless.

Bobbi taught me the most valuable lesson: It’s all about Me and my happiness. My focus shifted from does he like me, to do I LIKE HIM? With Bobbi’s coaching and thought provoking questions, I gained the confidence I was missing. Best of all, I learned to let go of my “list” and honed in on how I wanted to FEEL with my partner.

Then it became so clear to me! Joe, a man who had already been in my life for years, was that man who could make me happy. Joe and I have been together for 3 ½ years and without Bobbi I would not have recognized him as my perfect match. He invites me to feel all the feelings I’ve fantasized about, and more! And my daughter loves him and is so proud of me.

I know that without Bobbi’s expert, loving, guidance I would still be getting my heart broken by all the wrong guys instead of spending my life with a man who absolutely loves and adores me and my daughter. Bobbi’s coaching gave me a new perspective and changed my life forever. - Shari, 53

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Dawn C.

I TOOK THIS PROGRAM OVER A YEAR AGO, AND AM STILL REAPING UNEXPECTED BENEFITS!

Kudos to Bobbi and the Get Online, Get Noticed, Find Love program! I took it over a year ago and I’m still reaping unexpected benefits. It turns out I do better in person, so after acclimating to a new job and location, I started testing the waters at a Literary Speed Dating event. It was funny because they hadn’t set up the numbers right, so there were 25 women and just 5 men! As a result the women had to “date” each other. I dated 15 women and just 2 men, and thought of it as a great learning experience, but the other women turned into Hunting Dogs and the men, Sitting Ducks. As I spoke to these women, I got what most men out there experience – demands, expectations, shoulder-chip statements. And this was just in the first 2 minutes of talking with these gals. Both men I spoke to were outside my age range and world-view, but with Bobbi’s “discover, don't decide” outlook, I was able to relax, smile and have a good conversation with them! I’m so grateful for that experience. And I felt like a million bucks because I had an edge of authenticity in a room full of desperate women. All of this made every single hard-earned, sweated-through homework assignment from the program worth it! Thanks so much, Bobbi. – Dawn C.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Jenny W.

I'VE GOT DATES WITH 2 GREAT PROSPECTS THIS WEEK - MEN I'VE BEEN ABLE TO ATTRACT SINCE HAVING A CONFIDENCE MAKE-OVER, THANKS TO BOBBI! - Jenny W.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Judy G.

AT 75, I HAVE FINALLY MET THE MAN I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR ALL THESE YEARS. - Judy G.

After working with three other dating coaches and seeing little to no results with their programs, I thought that I did not know how to attract and connect to men. Then I found Bobbi’s free Grownup Girls’ Night Out webinars and free Online Dating Challenge. The profile I created using her Challenge program worked better than the other expensive programs I’d tried!

Thanks to Bobbi, my dating and romantic life has changed drastically. I learned how to connect to men on an emotional level and was more confident on first dates and the following ones as well. I even learned how to flirt which I didn't think that I could do before. I met more men than I had ever met.

At 75, I have finally met the man that I have been looking for all these years. Surprisingly enough, despite all the time and effort I have put into finding the right man for me, it seemed to happen by magic. He emailed me on a Saturday morning and we went to dinner that night. The first date was just ok, because he wanted to tell me who he was and he talked a lot. I was trying to follow Bobbi's advice not to let the man do all the talking. I didn't know if he was interested in me or not. About a week later, he asked me out for a second date. It was great. He brought me a large bouquet of flowers and we talked easily about all kind of things. Gradually, we started to see each other more and now we see each other about 3 to 4 times a week. We are now meeting each others' family and friends. He is easy to be with, and when I am with him, I feel comfortable, safe and HAPPY. He keeps telling me that he wants to make me happy.

Bobbi is the best coach that I have worked with. Her ideas are sensible and easy to follow. She understands the dating "scene" and knows how to deal with all kinds of situations. I have found her advice to be extremely helpful. In addition, she is caring, generous and kind. - Judy G, 75

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Alice B.

AFTER 18-MONTHS HE HAS A KEY TO MY HOUSE AND TO MY HEART. I CAN'T IMAGINE BEING ANYWHERE ELSE!

When I first met Bobbi, I absolutely loved her. I listened to Bobbi talk about making a “grown up” connection, and finding someone to grow old with, not just play around with. It sounded like a Disney movie for adults; definitely too good to be true. But, deep in my heart, that’s what I really wanted. After two failed marriages and several other long term relationships that ended poorly, I just didn’t believe it was available to me. I was on 4 or 5 dating sites, meeting new men for coffee nearly every day. I was the One Date Wonder. Maybe two – never three. I took Bobbi’s class and hired her to help me. She re-wrote my online profile and made me spend money to get new photos. She put me on Match (I hate Match) and monitored my progress. Bobbi was working on changing my attitude. She encouraged me to walk with my head up and make eye contact with people as I walked. She had me strike up small conversations in line at Starbucks and at the bank. She advised me to get out and do things that I enjoy where men are likely to be present. I did most of that, and quite honestly, felt pretty good about it. I didn’t meet anyone right away, but I felt more connected with my community.

I kept my heart open and my eyes up. I went out with friends and made small talk, just like Bobbi advised. I was definitely getting too old and too fat to meet anyone, but I was enjoying live music and cycling, so whether I met someone or not, it was a Good Life.

One night my friend and I were attending a live music gig. One of the bands we were following included a friend of hers that she had known for over 25 years. Between sets, he would come over and sit with us, talking about any number of things. One night, we were talking about people and weight, and I made some comment about my size and how it didn’t seem to change no matter what I did. His comment was, “That just doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter at all.”

Now, if you know Bobbi, you’ve heard her say, “It’s not the size of your thighs” that determines whether or not someone is into you. I swear I heard Bobbi laughing as I looked up to see him smiling.

After the next set, he sat back down and said, “You know…I’m not seeing anyone.” We talked on the phone every day for a month, and started going out regularly after that. It has been 18 months now. He has a key to my house and to my heart. I can’t imagine being anywhere else. He is amazing, and I’m better than I have ever been. Life is good. Just like a Disney Movie.

Thank you, Bobbi, for helping me be open to the possibility of Love. And helping me find it.
Alice B,

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Jodi L.

Now I know - for the first time in my entire life — that there is a Good Man out there for me.

I am fortunate enough to be one of the 25 Women in this semester of DLAGU Love School. I am 60 and my track record is pretty dismal. Divorced, too many really bad relationships to count, and not any hope of finding anyone.

If you are thinking about doing Bobbi’s Over-40 Love School I would give you only one piece of advice, Trust This Woman.

She is The Buddha, Yoda, All Knowing Sage when it comes to teaching over-40 women what to do to meet The One. Now I know - for the first time in my entire life — that there is a Good Man out there for me.

With the tools, independent work, and real-life advice Bobbi’s given us, I go out and feel completely at ease in my own skin. This is real stuff we are doing that ultimately gets us to a place I was not even aware of. And this place feels So Good.

I was sharing an experience with Bobbi & the class. It was about me emerging as my truest and most confident self. It was a beautiful little story, I was proud to share. Bobbi’s reply to me said it all “Welcome to your new Life!” Thank you Bobbi for kindly leading me there.

- Chef Jodi L.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Dating after 40 Success Story: Kathy

YOUR COACHING WAS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED AT THE TIME TO GAIN THE CONFIDENCE THAT I WAS LACKING TO BE ABLE TO BE SINGLE AND DATE AFTER!

Bobbi, I wanted to let you know that I took your 6-Step course about 3 years ago after finding myself divorced at 42 after being married for almost 25 years. Your coaching was exactly what I needed at the time to gain the confidence that I was lacking to be able to be single and date after 40! I am very excited to say that I took your advice and got on Match and YES met the man of my dreams!! I am ecstatic to say we are getting MARRIED!! My dream guy (Jim) is giving me the dream wedding that I've always wanted!! He is everything I've ever wanted and dreamed of in a life partner. He is wonderful - so please tell your readers / clients never give up! There are great men out there and yes yes yes they are looking for great mature women - not 20 something girls!!

Keep up the great work you do! You really are helping us!!

Much Love!
Kathy

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Lisa

OF ALL THE THINGS I'VE EVER DONE, YOUR COACHING HELPED ME OUT THE MOST!

Soooo.... I just got married at 53 for the first time on Saturday. I started wanting it at about age 40. Since then I've tried to do a lot of work on myself and of all the things I've ever done, your coaching helped me out the most.
Love and blessings, thank you! - Lisa

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Mary K.

BOBBI'S SUPPORT HAS AFFECTED SO MANY AREAS OF MY LIFE. I NOW REALLY APPRECIATE AND LOVE ME!

Before finding Bobbi, I was feeling good about myself but was very frustrated about my romantic future. I felt like I didn't know enough about men even though I had been married over 30 years and have two brothers.

I was afraid of dating - I had not been on a date since college!

Bobbi's support has affected so many areas of my life... I now really appreciate and love me - my qualities, my body, my strength. I have inner peace, confidence and beauty because of that. My friends and my brothers have commented that I seem different. As Bobbi says, I am "my best self". (Bonus! This change in me has helped me deal with family issues, too.)

Best of all, Bobbi has helped me really understand more about men. While I have not dated a lot (yet!), I am more comfortable and confident approaching men. I can choose better and write a damn good email. Most importantly I know what I want and look to see if I like him.

The Love Program 5 step program was the perfect mix of intimate, small group calls and personal work with Bobbi that I needed. Other coaches didn't match my personality, my age group and their group calls were large. This was just the right fit and worth every nickel! - Mary K, 63

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Nancy

YOUR OWN STORY HELPED ME REALIZE I WAS NOT A FAILURE!

This insight I got from Fix Your Man Picker helped me find the love of my life at 53 and I was a single, never married chick. Thanks, Bobbi, your own story helped me realize I was not a failure but was just making some seriously bad choices. Today marks 15 months since D and I met and we are happier than ever. We now live together! - Nancy

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Roberta

WE BOTH SAY THAT WE ARE HAVING THE BEST SEX OF OUR LIVES NOW!

I met a wonderful man after 20 years of CFS ( chronic fatigue syndrome). I’m better than I was 20 years ago but still don’t have what I would call a “normal” amount of energy. That aside, I was determined to find a relationship. I am divorced and a Grandmother.

In an attempt to find a relationship that works for me, I did it all; on line seminars, various dating websites, lots of dates, took up Zydeco dancing and went to singles events. I met lots of men. I got involved with several but nothing worked out.

It was listening to your Date like a Grown Up on Thursday nights, that changed things for me. You said something like, open your mind up and to go out with someone that you wouldn’t ordinarily choose. I decided to go out with a man who had a beard and mustache. That was something I wouldn’t have done because I thought beards were scratchy. ( wrong) I met him on OK Cupid.

We have been dating for a year and a half now. I am 67 and he is 65. He is a great guy and a wonderful friend. We have a great sex life too. We both say that we are having the best sex of our lives now! Thank you for your care and support.
Roberta

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Sam

I CONFIDENTLY MEET MEN NOW AND MANAGE MY NERVES ENOUGH TO ENJOY THE ONLINE DATING EXPERIENCE!

After a 15-year dating hiatus, I was hopeful about dating and a romantic future, but quite scared about stepping into action. I couldn't see how I was going to get there and was very anti-online.

I took Bobbi's Online Dating Bootcamp and that got me primed to venture further and get into action, but the apprehension about stepping out into the dating world...! I loved Bobbi's approaches and really wanted her support in what I was doing so enrolled in her Love Program to learn her 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him system.

Drastic change started for me during my very first coaching call with Bobbi when I had an epiphany that released me from my past. I realized that laying the right foundation for myself was essential in building a solid foundation in myself – for myself - before going out to meet men.

With that confidence in my pocket, I gradually built trust and confidence in the path. I now have a level of confidence about myself that had been missing for a long while. Friends have noticed and commented on my strength and the change in my way of dressing and interacting.

The biggest bonus? I confidently meet men now and manage my nerves. I'm even enjoying the online experience which I thought would never ever happen! I've been out on dates, I've been able to refine my needs and set some clear boundaries. I'm no longer terrified of it all, but really quite enjoying the attention. The men I've met have restored my faith in good men which has been lovely.

I can sense I'm getting closer to finding love.

Bobbi is so generous and warmhearted. Her faith in me and genuine care, delight and dedication to a loving future for me, has left no room for doubt. She knows her stuff and isn't afraid to give a push when needed and balances that with celebration and gentleness when that is needed too. I couldn't recommend her highly enough.

Financially speaking, this was the right program and the right person at the right time and I actually could not have gotten to this place on my own. If you feel the call for love in your life and you know what you're doing isn't working, then read some of Bobbi's work and if you click - then take the plunge. It is a commitment - financially and personally - and is absolutely worth it.

Ah Bobbi - you know I love you and am in such gratitude for what we've achieved together - I could never have done this without you! - Sam, 49

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Sosi E.

I'VE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM BOBBI, IT'S BEEN REVOLUTIONARY FOR ME.

I wanted to be in a long-term relationship but wasn't meeting many guys to date. And the few I was meeting and dating were not worth the time.
I knew I was a great person and vaguely hopeful that I too would find my match someday, but I wasn't making much of an effort and prince charming was certainly not pounding down my apartment door.

I have learned so much from Bobbi, it's been revolutionary for me. She has taught me to communicate directly with kindness, something that was not part of my upbringing. It's impacted all my relationships - and not just the romantic ones.

First and foremost, I truly now believe I will find him. I've learned how to be the same fabulous person I am with friends, with guys. I am more open to men I would never have considered in the past and I’m confident I'll be able to tell the good ones from the time wasters.

Bobbi is kind, inspiring and focused on exactly what I need to work on! She is bringing kindness back into how we treat each other. And most importantly, she has developed a very doable system that really works.

I love working with Bobbi because she is right there with me, inspiring me every step of the way, helping me see things differently and push past my comfort zone. And all in a fun and kind way.

Working with Bobbi has transformed my life and is best investment I've ever made in myself.

PS: Btw, I’ve met a man I think I’m falling in love with. He wants to be exclusive but I’m waiting to be sure he’s truly got the potential to be a good man for me. I am so excited! I’ve never ever felt like I do when I’m with him. Thank you Bobbi!

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Toni W.

BOBBI SHOWED ME THAT THIS IS ABOUT MORE THAN JUST MEETING A MAN - IT'S ABOUT COMPLETELY LOVING AND ACCEPTING MYSELF.

I used to feel like there was something wrong with me and had a hard time believing in myself. I thought everything with dating was "my fault", and definitely needed to feel more positive!

Bobbi showed me that it's about more than just meeting a man. It is about completely loving and accepting myself- which is a lot more important than having a man love me. If I don't love myself, nobody else's love will get through.

Bobbi taught me good communication skills with men - people in general - and helped me keep a light approach to the dating so I can keep perspective and not fall into a hole about "men do this..." or "men do that.."

Now, at 65, I feel I've learned a lot about myself and dating that I never had a chance to learn when I was younger. I never had anyone to teach me until Bobbi!

Now, I am out dating and don't feel desperate. I'm taking my time to find good men, and I feel good about who I am as a person. and feel I am valuable and worth a man making an effort to get to know – which has been the most priceless benefit from this investment. - Toni W, 65

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story:Tracey

LEARNING TO DATE LIKE A GROWNUP REALLY DOES LEAD TO LOVE!!

All IS good here - actually, no, all absolutely fabulous here! Craig and I are still going from strength to strength. We have been dating now for 9 months, and I keep reflecting on how different this relationship is from others. Lots of loving communication, no sense of having to "play a part", just us being ourselves; it is so lovely and we are crazy about each other!

Everything that you taught me is right. Learning to date like a grownup really does lead to love. He is just wonderful and he makes me feel so special. We are both excited and curious about the future, which we know will be together. Happy Happy dance!

I want to thank you again for your support and wisdom. If I had not worked with you I know for sure that I would not have this wonderful relationship. You have had a profound impact on my life, and for that, I will always be grateful. Tracey xoxo

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story:Trudi

I AM MARRIED TO A MAN WHOSE PURPOSE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP IS TO GROW US AND TO TREAT ME LIKE A PRINCESS!

I was skeptical but decided to invest in Bobbi's coaching. I am so glad I did because now I'm married to a great guy! As she guided me through her amazing 6-Step System, Bobbi taught me about letting men be men and loving the woman I am. (After working as a surgeon and raising my daughter, that feminine part of me was well-buried.)

I had tons of limiting beliefs and old stories that Bobbi helped me uncover and learn to tame. (They had been getting in my way for so many years.) Also, I had NEVER before thought about what I needed to be happy, and I surely didn't know how to tell men about it!

THANK YOU BOBBI! Your coaching changed my life . I would have never imagined in my wildest dreams that the online profile you wrote for me a year ago today would grow into the new life I have today. I am married to a man whose whole purpose in our relationship is to grow us and to treat me like a princess! I am soooo happy! 

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Vickey T.

HE'S DEFINATELY A KEEPER AND I'M THANKFUL I TRIED SOMETHING DIFFERENT, STAYED OPEN TO THE POSSIBILITIES, AND WAS ABLE TO TRUST AGAIN. THANK YOU SO MUCH, BOBBI!

We have been exclusive for a little over 4 months now. We just got back from a 5 day trip where we had a fabulous, relaxing time. He is protective yet not overbearing, supportive, attentive, and I find him endearing in so many ways. We spend every weekend together and sometimes he makes the hour drive to see me on a weeknight too.

I have to tell you that when I started dating him, he was the underdog in the race. He wasn't my "type" because he was shorter than I like , not as much higher education as I prefer, and a workaholic...and there was no immediate spark. But this man consistently stepped up, planned things, communicated, included me in his world and was okay being incorporated into mine, was transparent about what he wanted and how he felt, treated me like a queen, and quietly won my heart.

He's definitely a keeper and I'm thankful I tried something different, stayed open to the possibilities, and was able to trust again. Thank you so much, Bobbi!
Vickey T.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Vick R.

I'M SO IN LOVE WITH A REALLY GOOD MAN!

Before Bobbi's Love Program, I was feeling super frustrated with dating because it just wasn't happening even though I felt like I was in a place of really liking myself. I'd been dating online on and off for about 10 years and wasn't finding my right man. I'd taken other programs that taught that we can only find love when we love ourselves. So there I was at 49 feeling like I was good with me and Love still wasn't happening.

The Love Program helped me realize I used to date men hoping they’d like ME. I used to date the same type of men – Type A, gregarious men – and catered to them trying to please them. After a while I’d start to feel resentful that they weren’t making me a priority. I found that as a real pleaser I'd put my wants, my needs, and myself in the background as a result. Through Bobbi’s coaching, I’ve been able to speak up for what I need and want which has really helped me in the dating world. Now I make myself a priority, and shifting away from hoping he likes me has really empowered me to make better decisions about who I want to get to know better.

Best of all, I met someone amazing! Still a Type A, gregarious man (I didn't have to dump my “type” once I tuned in to how to show up in the dating world) but now that I know how to honor my needs, he has in turn - over the top - made me a priority. And that feels SO good! We are so happy together - and it's been almost 9 months!

Bobbi helped me get clear on my Must Have’s - which single handedly rescued this relationship. At one point, petty things about this man were really irking me. But when I looked at my list of Must Have’s (which Bobbi taught me in Step 3). I realized he had them all! That made the petty things fade away, and helped me appreciate what I have in him. Instead of ending the relationship over things that were getting on my nerves, I was able to have a productive, grownup conversation with him about those and things are great now. (Which I couldn't have done without Bobbi's help.) That alone has made my investment in Me worth every penny. I'm so in love with a really good man!
- Vicki R, 48

after meeting several high quality men, I'm in a fantastic relationship with an active, interesting, good-looking man who I'm really enjoying.

Prior to working with Bobbi, I had given up hope on finding Love. I had struck out enough times that I was over it. Done. I'd convinced myself that at 62, I didn't need a man – that I'd just move on. Then I found Bobbi. Her eBook and emails were so sensible and real – and all of her information focused on feeling good about ME first – which I really resonated with after giving up.

I finally decided to take the plunge with Bobbi's Love Program. I liked her intelligent, adult approach, focused on women over 40. Bobbi gave me incredible confidence and optimism. I knew I'd be able to do this. With her help, I got a great profile together, and fantastic pictures. She gave me just the tools that I needed.

This program was really worth every penny. I’ve wasted so much money over the years on stupid things, I really wasn’t going to let this be the one thing I should have tried but didn’t.

Now, after meeting several high quality men, I'm in a fantastic relationship with an active, interesting, good-looking man who I'm really enjoying. We met online and I'm hopeful for the potential. I never would have been here without Bobbi and the Love Program. Thanks Bobbi! ~ Suzanne

Bootcamp Graduate: Suzanne, 41 New York,NY

I am dating a great guy now who adores me and I adore him.

Thank you Bobbi for putting together this program. It helped me understand I was still dating like a teenager. It has changed my life! I am dating a great guy now who adores me and I adore him. And he’s someone I would have never picked before I took your course. Thank you for teaching me how to recognize and attract this wonderful man.

This keeps my heart happy, and no matter what happens with a man, I will always have this to be more relaxed

I was tired of meeting men only never to hear from them again after a few dates. I wanted to get beyond that and find my forever man. Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp taught me to get together a list of what I love about myself and continuously keep this in mind. This keeps my heart happy, and no matter what happens with a man, I will always have this. Now I seem to be more relaxed, especially on “meet dates”, and I've been able to put things in perspective and not get upset if I don't hear back from him.

Absolutely would recommend to others. It's a way to step aside from dating and look at what I can bring to each date to make it a pleasant and forward-moving process.
- Teresa

Bootcamp Graduate: Teresa

This keeps my heart happy, and no matter what happens with a man, I will always have this.

I was tired of meeting men only never to hear from them again after a few dates. I wanted to get beyond that and find my forever man.

Bootcamp taught me to get together a list of what I love about myself and continuously keep this in mind. This keeps my heart happy, and no matter what happens with a man, I will always have this. Now I am so much more relaxed, especially on “meet dates”, and I've been able to put things in perspective.

I absolutely would recommend to others. It's a way to step aside from dating and look at what I can bring to each date to make it a pleasant and a forward-moving process.

I FEEL VERY LUCKY TO HAVE MET HIM!

Things are going very well here. I’m still happily seeing Ed – we’ll be coming up on 5 months next week. He took me to his mother’s house on Easter and he’s met my in-laws (how weird is that??). It’s been fun and exciting getting to know each other. We’ve planned a vacation week together in October (he was the one that suggested it J), and will be planning another one for August. I feel very lucky to have met him – and to think I might not have responded to him on Match, or known what to do after that, if I hadn’t taken your course! So once again, thank you!
- Terry

I might not have responded to him on Match, or known what to do after that, if I hadn’t taken your Online Dating course!

Things are going very well here. I’m still happily seeing Ed – we’ll be coming up on 5 months next week. He took me to his mother’s house on Easter and he’s met my in-laws (how weird is that??). It’s been fun and exciting getting to know each other. We’ve planned a vacation week together in October (he was the one that suggested it J), and will be planning another one for August. I feel very lucky to have met him – and to think I might not have responded to him on Match, or known what to do after that, if I hadn’t taken your Online Dating course! So once again, thank you!
- Terry, 61

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Veronica A.

I'M HAPPY BEYOND WORDS.

Before working with Bobbi I was unable to connect with my own value and what I had to offer. I knew what I wanted romantically, but had no idea how to get there.

Bobbi’s honest, straightforward, caring style provided the big picture for me. All I’ve learned from her has made me happier and I’ve been able to expand the results and feelings to all areas in my life.

I wanted to share the enormous happiness I'm now experiencing. My Man is the sweetest man I've ever met, caring, compassionate and wonderful.

Communication is excellent, chemistry is amazing, and we enjoy being very affectionate with each other. We work out our challenges with love and understanding. (Because now I know how.)

Only when I was confident that this kind of love could be in my life, is when it happened. I'm happy beyond words. And I want to thank you, Bobbi. Every single piece of advice that you have ever given to me, has been, and continues to be, so extremely helpful.

–Veronica A, 45

I'm so in love with a really good man!

Before Bobbi's Love Program, I was feeling super frustrated with dating because it just wasn't happening even though I felt like I was in a place of really liking myself. I'd been dating online on and off for about 10 years and wasn't finding my right man. I'd taken other programs that taught that we can only find love when we love ourselves. So there I was at 49 feeling like I was good with me and Love still wasn't happening.

The Love Program helped me realize I used to date men hoping they’d like ME. I used to date the same type of men – Type A, gregarious men – and catered to them trying to please them. After a while I’d start to feel resentful that they weren’t making me a priority. I found that as a real pleaser I'd put my wants, my needs, and myself in the background as a result. Through Bobbi’s coaching, I’ve been able to speak up for what I need and want which has really helped me in the dating world. Now I make myself a priority, and shifting away from hoping he likes me has really empowered me to make better decisions about who I want to get to know better.

Best of all, I met someone amazing! Still a Type A, gregarious man (I didn't have to dump my “type” once I tuned in to how to show up in the dating world) but now that I know how to honor my needs, he has in turn - over the top - made me a priority. And that feels SO good! We are so happy together - and it's been almost 9 months!

Bobbi helped me get clear on my Must Have’s - which single handedly rescued this relationship. At one point, petty things about this man were really irking me. But when I looked at my list of Must Have’s (which Bobbi taught me in Step 3). I realized he had them all! That made the petty things fade away, and helped me appreciate what I have in him. Instead of ending the relationship over things that were getting on my nerves, I was able to have a productive, grownup conversation with him about those and things are great now. (Which I couldn't have done without Bobbi's help.) That alone has made my investment in Me worth every penny. I'm so in love with a really good man!
- Vicki

I HAVE MET A WONDERFUL MAN WHO IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN ALL MY OTHER RELATIONSHIPS AND NOT SOMEONE WHO I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE CLICKED WITH.

He is honest, sincere, thoughtful and willing to please me in so many ways- it’s turning out to be just what I needed! I always had lots of dates but could not seem to find someone I clicked with. I had several long term relationships and always felt they were not Mr. Right but Mr. Right-Now. Bobbi helped me to open up and look for a man who was not my "type" in the classic sense. I let go of the stereotype and was willing to open up to being real and authentic. I stopped judging men on their bank account and started noticing more about the person they were deep down… and found just the right man. - Andrea

WHAT A WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE!! I FEEL POSITIVE AND HOPEFUL!

I just listened to the Trust experience and it took me to a safe place on a small lake in the Adirondacks that I had almost forgotten. Dike’s voice is gorgeous. - Anita

I HIGHLY RECOMMEND HER TO GROUPS LARGE AND SMALL - SHE DELIVERS REAL VALUE IN A VERY WARM, EXPERT AND ENGAGING WAY.

Bobbi Palmer isn’t just a speaker, she’s an instant trusted friend. There’s something about her chummy style, sharp intelligence, and no-nonsense delivery that brings her inside your comfort zone the minute she starts speaking.

At our Women At Woodstock workshops this year, Bobbi instantly established her presence and expertise, allowed for an open exchange of valuable information, and was just plain fun.

Bobbi is not just a dating expert, she’s a human relationship expert, and she kind of bopped us all on the head repeatedly with truths that are not self-evident but that are indeed right in front of us - if only we will see them.

Whether we were single, divorced, or happily married, we had many AHA! moments when Bobbi spoke.

Ann Voorhees Baker www.womenatwoodstock.com

LAST WEEKEND WE DECIDED TO BE EXCLUSIVE AND ARE BOTH RESIGNING OUR MEMBERSHIPS ON MATCH!

After my 2nd marriage broke up at age 59 (9 years ago) I started dating again. Though I didn’t have much trouble getting dates through either Match or social events, but they weren’t the KIND of men I wanted – they didn’t fill my heart with joy. Either they didn’t have my same interests (travel, performing arts, world curiosity, the outdoors), or they wined and dined me only to become self-centered once we were exclusive.

I started getting worried I was too old and that men my age want younger women – in short, that I didn’t have as many options. Bobbi changed my mind about all that! She taught me how to be more confident about what I want and what I have to offer – and that all showed up in my dates.

Bobbi helped me with my profile – it’s now much less serious and my sense of humor comes through. Men liked that. And with my new profile over 50% of the men were the kind of guys I wanted to date! I also learned to flirt - it actually was fun. Bobbi helped me sort out how to spot the players. Now I feel totally safe and in control with my new knowledge!

Bobbi has helped me feel good (and confident!) about wanting a good man in my life and that has rubbed off on my attitude about the rest of my life. - Ann C.

UPDATE: Much to my surprise and when I least expected it, "C" has touched my heart. I asked many questions and he didn't hesitate to answer any of them. The confidence I got from my work with Bobbi helped me recognize a fantastic guy – I almost passed him by, but Bobbi helped me to see that he was a good match for me. Outdoorsy, loves the performing arts, makes me feel safe AND we have great, honest conversations. Without Bobbi I would have missed the opportunity with this great man!

Last weekend we decided to be exclusive and are both resigning our memberships on Match. In the last couple of weeks started introducing each other to our friends. My closest friends like him a lot. "The best man for me that they have ever met" they said. Wow, after all these years. And all thanks to you, Bobbi!  - Ann, 68

WORKING WITH BOBBI INSPIRED ME TO DIG DEEP AND APPROACH MEN & DATING FROM A MORE COMPASSIONATE, HUMAN PLACE WHILE GIVING ME PRACTICAL, REAL-WORLD TOOLS.

Bobbi is the real deal: a real success story who is eager to share with you what she's learned works and what doesn't. She's a motivating teacher/booster who pulls out your best from you. I'm fully confident that I'll meet my Special One — and now I'll know what to do with him! - Anne W, 44

GGNO really provides an atmosphere where I feel that ‘yes, I can trust myself.' I trust that I CAN actually attract what I need!

I learn a lot when I tune into your webcasts, and so appreciate your loving, authentic, straight, beautiful communication (and blue nails!). I appreciated the clarity of steps about the how to communicate my needs - the quantifiable aspect seems key (especially for men, right?!). I’m learning to be patient when in discovery mode and to celebrate my needs enough to have them be a priority- that makes me happy! And it’s got to be that way. I think I’ll be spending some of this weekend reading your eBook, and doing the exercises around defining my boundaries, and finding even more new ways to have a good time in my life.
Thank you… I’m catching you when I can! Bless you woman, you rock! - Asra

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Carol W.

IT'S BEEN ONLY A COUPLE WEEKS THAT I'VE BEEN WORKING WITH YOU...AND I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING DEFROSTED.

– Carol W, 46

I really appreciate the sane, sassy GGNO call today – packed full of wisdom. It was such a wake-up call for me, about moving the bar on being more ‘selfish’ and prioritizing happiness over deep fascination, feeling ‘drawn-in’ etc. plus being much more decisive and letting go if my (our) needs aren’t being met.

That’s such sound, timely advice, delivered so naturally and genuinely – I love it and look forward to more GGNO, as I’ve a lot to learn. Oh Bobbi, I could have done with knowing some of this half a lifetime ago, though subsequent life experience means that I’m ultra ready to spot patterns and nip old, unhelpful approaches in the bud whilst cultivating really wise, fun and workable ones! A heartfelt Thanks! - Carole

BEING ABLE TO ADMIT THAT WHILE I DIDN'T "NEED" A MAN IN MY LIFE, RATHER IT WOULD BRING ME HAPPINESS TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH ONE, WAS HUGE FOR ME. I SOMEHOW THOUGHT THAT WOULD MAKE ME NEEDY - BUT WITH ALL THAT BOBBI HAS TAUGHT ME, JUST THE OPPOSITE IS TRUE.

Before working with Bobbi I was on a 6-year break from dating and I was feeling hopeless! As part of my homework one week, I joined a golf club meetup. A couple weeks in, I met a great guy who initially did not give me butterflies, but who kept showing up for me in ways I'd only dreamed about.

Greg and I have been together ever since...about a year. Thank you again for all your support and advice. I know that taking in a new perspective and making some changes has set me on a happier path. I feel like you helped me "let myself out" and I'm so grateful. And, yes, I'm quite enjoying the relationship that Greg and I are working on together, because it really feels like we're a team. Sometimes I feel so lucky, like I need to pinch myself, just not in a crazy over-the-top way. - Christy M.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Christy M.

BEING ABLE TO ADMIT THAT WHILE I DIDN'T "NEED" A MAN IN MY LIFE, RATHER IT WOULD BRING ME HAPPINESS TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH ONE WAS HUGE FOR ME. I SOMEHOW THOUGHT THAT WOULD MAKE ME NEEDY - BUT WITH ALL THAT BOBBI HAS TAUGHT ME, JUST THE OPPOSITE IS TRUE.

Before working with Bobbi I was on a 6-year break from dating and I was feeling hopeless! Interestingly, I was meeting a lot of people, but not connecting with many. In my mind, it was because I didn't need a man. When I started Bobbi’s 6-Step program, I was dating someone I was crazy about. Operative word being crazy - all based on chemistry and who I imagined he could be. I found myself acting like a shrinking violet, so I ended things. Quite by surprise, as part of my homework one week, I joined a golf club meetup, asked for help as a newbie when I arrived, and met some great people. A couple weeks in, I met a great guy who initially did not give me butterflies, but who keeps showing up for me in ways I'd only dreamed about. Bobbi helped me discover the best parts of myself, and to get in touch with what I really, really want from a man/relationship so that I know right away if something is working. With that I feel happy and secure, and not as attached to the outcome because I know that I'm being my complete self! - Christy M.

THIS BOOK IS A (LOVE) LIFE SAVER!

Having become a widow after twenty-five years of marriage, I was in desperate need of advice about the new world of dating. Bobbi Palmer came to my rescue. I think the one word that defines her philosophy is "kindness" - kindness to yourself and the guys you meet. Only then can you be open to dating successfully as a mature adult. And that's what Bobbi does in this book, help you to successfully date, with expert advice, written exercises and actionable homework assignments. - Cris W.

If you're stuck in any aspect of dating - whether you can't get started or you can't get to the second or third date - this workshop is for you!

–Crystal, 49

I'M SO EXCITED THAT I HAVE THE KNOWLEDGE, CONFIDENCE, AND ENTHUSIASM TO GET OUT THERE AGAIN AND FIND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS.

I used Bobbi's techniques to get back online and start dating again, and within one month of working with her, I met a great guy who I've dated for 6 months. Working with Bobbi is like talking with your best friend, except she knows what works. Girls, call Bobbi. You won't regret it! - Debbie P.

DON AND I ARE DOING GREAT!!!!

I have never been so much in love or felt so loved!! Again, a great big thank you!! Love you - Diana

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Diana

BOBBI'S EXPERTISE, SENSE OF HUMOR, AND REAL-LIFE EXPERIENCE HAS HELPED ME NAVIGATE WHAT I AM TRULY LOOKING FOR IN A MAN, AND HAS GIVEN ME THE COURAGE TO GO OUT AND GET IT.

Okay girls, I’ll be direct - I think Bobbi is one of the best kept secrets on the planet! She has this amazingly magical way of hitting me square between the eyes, building my confidence as I learn the truth about myself and about men. I’ve been married before, am the CEO of a company and a VP for many large multinational companies. Could I figure this out? Nope! I have “Ah-hah moments” every time I talk with Bobbi. Then I actually go out and try what she says and... it works! Thanks to Bobbi I am now going down my merry path of dating and selecting the man who actually fits my dream. This is one of the best investments I have ever made! –Diana, 49

BOBBI HELPED ME REALIZE WHAT A GREAT WOMAN I AM AND HOW TO USE ONLINE DATING TO CONNECT WITH AN AMAZING MAN!

I reached out to Don. I had been watching his profile for three months before I got the courage to reach out to him. Part of it was I didn’t want to blow it because he looked to be a really great guy. It turns out he’s even more fantastic than his profile let on. But it wasn’t until I felt confident enough that I found the courage to reach out to him. That confidence and SKILL came from you, Bobbi. Thank you for changing my life! -Diana B, 59

BOBBI'S EXPERTISE, SENSE OF HUMOR, AND REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE HAVE HELPED ME NAVIGATE WHAT I AM TRULY LOOKING FOR IN A MAN, AND HAS GIVEN ME THE COURAGE TO GO GET IT!

Bobbi is one of the best-kept secrets on the planet! She has this amazingly magical way of hitting me square between the eyes…building my confidence as I learn the truth about myself and about men. I have “Ah-hah moments” every time I talk to her. And then I actually go out and try what she says…and it works! - Diana, 42

I LOVE THE WAY YOU PUT REJECTION IN PERSPECTIVE AND HIGHLIGHTED THE IMPORTANCE OF TAKING RISKS AND PLAYING WITH ALL YOUR HEART WITHOUT HOLDING BACK.

I just finished your eBook and what I need to course correct is there! I am ready to stop playing it so safe and play to win. I am ready to put my guard down and let the real me be seen. I have moved finding love with a good man from not-on-my-list to my top priority in the last week and it feels right. Thank you Bobbi. - Diane, 48

BOBBI'S 6-STEP SYSTEM IS A PROVEN, EFFECTIVE METHOD THAT CAN TAKE THE MOST HOPELESS AND LOVE-WEARY WOMAN FROM SICK AND TIRED TO CONFIDENT AND INSPIRED!

Bobbi Palmer is simply the BEST coach in America for any woman over 40 who has tried to convince herself that maybe it's her "fate" to be single, or that she must settle for something less when it comes to finding love and relationship. I have seen Bobbi work miracles. I highly recommend you become a Bobbi Palmer success story now and get on with the REST of your life. YOU deserve it! - Marni Battista, Dating Coach, www.DatingwithDignity.com

IT HAS BEEN FOUR MONTHS AND 10 DAYS SINCE OUR WEDDING, AND I MUST REPORT THAT EVERY DAY JUST GETS BETTER AND BETTER.

I listened and applied what you taught me and have given my heart to the most wonderful, loving man of my life. We are so in love, and our love just grows deeper by the day. Our friends say we are just giddy, and our love just glows to everyone around us. I want to thank you again for your advice and helping me see this man for all his wonderful qualities—and especially for the love we could share.
Glenda, 61

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Glenda S.

IT HAS BEEN FOUR MONTHS AND 10 DAYS SINCE OUR WEDDING, AND I MUST REPORT THAT EVERY DAY JUST GETS BETTER AND BETTER.

We are so in love, and our love just grows deeper by the day. Our friends say we are just giddy, and our love just glows to everyone around us. I want to thank you again for your advice and helping me see this man for all his wonderful qualities—and especially for the love we could share. - Glenda S, 60

I was one of those girls that always thought of the man and how he feels, his needs and I did things to please him. Not any more!

Thank you for your recent GGNO. I watched it via the replay. I loved the tips on getting clarity and focusing on how it would feel to have your own needs met in order to be happy for life with the right partner. When I start to think and focus on what it would be like my heart starts to swell with hope and love. Once again thank you. Much love – Helen

TAKE IT FROM A FORMER UNHAPPY SINGLE GIRL WHO IS NOW MARRIED TO THE LOVE OF HER LIFE - BOBBI KNOWS HER STUFF!

I admit it. I was a skeptic. I didn't think any man would go for a "fluffy" 46-year-old, never-married career woman, but I was wrong, wrong, wrong. Do yourself a favor and don't wait any longer. Let Bobbi help you so you can start meeting men...and finally meet Your One!
Jeanine S, 48

I AM DATING AND IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN AMAZING GUY, AND I COULDN'T BE HAPPIER.

I just wanted to let you know you were right – I’m not a lost cause after all. I met him my way, but am dating him your way: I am very open, I have slowed down considerably, and I find myself being very still around him as opposed to always trying to bob and weave and be a moving target. I am honest and real and yes, even vulnerable; and while it freaks me out a little, I am determined to do it. I just wanted to thank you and let you know that I really did take your wisdom to heart, and of course you were right. Thank you for everything you taught me. - Jennifer L.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Jocelyn P.

I'M SO GRATEFUL FOR THE HELP GETTING UNSTUCK! BOBBI HAS PUT TOGETHER A GREAT MIX OF INSIGHT AND ACTION STEPS, IN A WAY THAT EVERY WOMAN CAN OWN HER PROCESS AND PROGRESS.

I'm sooooo grateful for the help getting unstuck! In addition to Bobbi's fun, compassionate, Here's-the-Deal-Sister presence on the live coaching calls, the assignments were simple yet powerful tools for transformation; I could hear all of us blossoming over the course of the class! The "community" of women participating has been remarkable and delightful, with continued insight and encouragement. - Jocelyn P, 49

WITH BOBBI'S COACHING, I'VE BEEN ABLE TO EMBRACE MY MIDLIFE MIND, BODY, AND FEMININITY!

I participated in the TODAY show workshop with Bobbi and can definitely say I left more excited and hopeful about navigating Post-50 dating (even after a 3-year absence from the dating scene!). Bobbi gave me the skills to empower myself well after the workshop and to incorporate the new-found knowledge and confidence into my everyday life. - Joyce

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Joyce

WITH BOBBI'S COACHING, I'VE BEEN ABLE TO EMBRACE MY MIDLIFE MIND, BODY, AND FEMININITY!

Although it has been less than a week since I participated in the TODAY show workshop, I can definitely say I left more excited and hopeful about navigating Post-50 dating (even after a 3-year absence from the dating scene!). I’m so grateful for having had the opportunity to spend the day with like-minded women and Bobbi. Bobbi is a very genuine woman with a gift of compassion and understanding how challenging, intimidating and sometimes hopeless looking for long lasting love can be. She leaves you with the skills to empower yourself long after the workshop if you choose to incorporate the new-found knowledge and confidence into your everyday life. - Joyce

With Bobbi's Coaching I've been able to embrace my midlife mind, body and femininity!

I participated in the TODAY show workshop and definitely left more excited and hopeful about navigating Post-50 dating (even after a 3-year absence from the dating scene!). Bobbi is a very genuine woman with a gift of compassion and understanding how challenging, intimidating and sometimes hopeless looking for long lasting love can be. She gave me the skills to empower myself long after the workshop, and I've been able to incorporate my new-found knowledge and confidence into my everyday life. - Joyce

I started meeting quality, fabulous men for the first time in years and eventually met the love of my life!

I love Bobbi's kindness, patience, and exceptional coaching advice. In just a short time Bobbi moved me along from being scared to having fun dating. She's the master at Dating Like a Grownup! Bobbi rewrote my online dating profile and helped select pictures. She educated me on how to select men to meet and how to write and answer emails. (My emails got answered for the first time ever!)

This may sound simple, but having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. I hope other ladies in their 40s, 50s and 60s who want a relationship but are scared and lonely find Bobbi and invest in their future. I thank you, Bobbi, from the bottom of my heart. You have given me hope, results, and now love. - Karen C, 63

BOBBI TAUGHT ME HOW TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF AND HOW TO IMPROVE OUR COMMUNICATION SO WE COULD BE TOGETHER AGAIN.

Long story short, after we became boyfriend and girlfriend I thought I didn’t need Bobbi anymore. WRONG!!! I slowly started falling into my old patterns (insecurities) and the relationship came to an end. Joe, and I broke up a year later. I called Bobbi and signed up for her "6 Step course" the same day I broke up with my man. Luckily, Joe and I are back together. Thanks to Bobbi I realized I broke up with him because of a major miscommunication. I am currently working on diminishing my negative old patterns and continuing to work on bettering myself with Bobbi’s help. Now my relationship with Joe is stronger than before. Thanks Bobbi! - Kendra, 30

I LOOK BACK AND REALIZE I NEVER REALLY WORKED FOR LOVE - THOUGH ONLY BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE THE RIGHT TOOLS.

I've worked hard all my life for the things I want. It would be silly for me NOT to work for Love right? It was like trying to do my job without the right resources. I skated by but never fully succeeded. Thank you, Bobbi Palmer, for giving me the tools I need and for believing in me! - Laura G.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Laura G.

I LOOK BACK AND REALIZE I NEVER REALLY WORKED FOR LOVE - THOUGH ONLY BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE THE RIGHT TOOLS.

I've worked hard all my life for the things I want. It would be silly for me NOT to work for Love right? It was like trying to do my job without the right resources. I skated by but never fully succeeded. Thank you, Bobbi Palmer, for giving me the tools I need and for believing in me...for believing in ALL OF US! - Laura G.

BOBBI, I'M ALMOST FINISHED WITH YOUR CONFESSIONS BOOK. I FEEL LIKE YOU SEE RIGHT INTO MY SOUL ON EVERY PAGE.

I feel like I am YOU. So many similarities, it's freaking me out... in a good way. –Lisa H.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: LouAnne

I FEEL MORE PROACTIVE IN CHOOSING THE RIGHT GUY TO DATE AND BEST OF ALL, I FEEL EXCITED ABOUT THE POSSIBILITIES OF HAVING THE MARRIAGE I'VE ALWAYS WANTED. AND NOW I HAVE THE TOOLS AND SKILLS TO DO THAT.

You talk about "a-ha's", well I've had many. I really needed the "love myself" class a lot. It is something I am practicing each day and it is changing my life. I always knew one is suppose to love oneself, however, I never looked at it the way you showed us. I have never felt this "validated" in the dating process. The information you've taught me is causing me to deeply reflect on and redirect my actions. My paradigm is shifting...yes!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving me the HOPE I needed!!!! - LouAnne

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Margo

SOON AFTER THE CLASS ENDED, I FOUND A REALLY GREAT GUY THAT I'VE BEEN DATING FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW. I WOULDN'T HAVE GIVEN HIM A SECOND LOOK ONLINE HAD YOU NOT HELPED ME RETHINK MY 'MUST HAVES' AND DUMP SOME OF THE SUPERFICIAL TRAITS THAT MY 18-YEAR-OLD-SELF INSISTED WERE MANDATORY FOR MR. RIGHT.

I went straight to your website and was able to get a "flavor" for you and your message by reading some of your blog posts and watching a few videos. Afterwards, I was convinced that you "got it" and could help me find grownup love and I signed up for your teleclass. I can't thank you enough for how much you helped me look at love through a different lens and approach online dating as a confident, capable, desirable grown up gal! And damn if it didn't work! A year later, I still sing your praises and have sent more than a few girlfriends to your website. Thanks again for all you do in support of women over 40 looking for lifelong love. I, personally, will be forever grateful! - Margo, 53

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE, I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FANTASTIC GUY, WHO I'M TRULY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH.

Working with Bobbi through Private Coaching after taking her 6-Step course was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life. The course gave me an introduction to Bobbi’s way of thinking but the private coaching helped me to overcome my own specific and very personal “hang ups”. If you need clear advice on how to stop being single, I recommend Bobbi! She knows exactly what she is talking about. - Maria S, 36

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE, I AM NOW IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FANTASTIC GUY, AND WE ARE TRULY, DEEPLY IN LOVE.

“I’ve started to work with Bobbi through her 6-Step System course and continued working on her steps with private coaching. I think that was one of the best decisions I’ve taken in my life. The course gave the initial thoughts and the introduction to Bobbi’s way of thinking and the private coaching helped me to overcome my own specific and very personal “hang ups”.

I recommend Bobbi and all her courses and coaching to anybody who needs clear advice on how to stop being single and simply enjoys working with a nice and loving person, who knows exactly what she is talking about when it comes to men and finding real, lasting love.

Here are some of my personal results:
- I’ve become more self-confident in all areas of my life
- I’ve eased up on myself on a lot of things
- I’ve become much more confident with men and learned to truly love and appreciate them
- I’ve got to know several wise, beautiful and nice women through our group

And last but not least: For the first time in my life, I am now in a relationship with a fantastic guy, and we are truly deeply in love.

- Love to you all, Maria, 36, Oslo

I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR GUIDING ME IN MY SEARCH TO FIND SOMEONE. I STILL CANNOT BELIEVE I HAVE THIS AMAZING MAN IN MY LIFE!

George is AWESOME. Truly the most generous, thoughtful, affectionate, well-read, fun man I've ever met. You helped me change what I had been doing wrong for so many years, especially in how I used online dating. I would not have found the love of my life without you. Thank you of the bottom of my heart! - Mary S., 44

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Mary S.

I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR GUIDING ME IN MY SEARCH TO FIND SOMEONE. I STILL CANNOT BELIEVE I HAVE THIS AMAZING MAN IN MY LIFE!

George is AWESOME. Truly the most generous, thoughtful, affectionate, well-read, fun man I've ever met. You helped me change what I had been doing wrong for so many years, especially in how I used online dating. I would not have found the love of my life without you. Thank you of the bottom of my heart! - Mary S., 44

Module 2- February 18, 5:30pm PT
Attract the High Quality/High Potential Men

Your profile is your calling card – your digital ‘come hither.’ You're going to learn how to show up online as your very best self so you magnetize the type of men you want to meet.

In this module, I’m going to answer these questions:

  • There are thousands of other women going after the same men. How can I make my profile get noticed and stand out?
  • What are the men I want to attract really looking for when they browse profiles?
  • How do I politely say I only want to hear from the kind of man I’m looking for?
  • How do I let men know that if they aren’t the same religion or politics as I not to bother?
  • Do I include something in my profile about my physical/financial/family challenge?
  • Is it better to say what you really want and not get many responses or make the profile generic and weed out the responses?
  • What kind of photos should I post and how many?
  • What are real turn-offs to guys so I can avoid them?
  • Is it good or bad to post a picture that’s a little bit sexy?
  • Is it ok to post pictures with my children or grandchildren?
  • I don’t have good pictures. What can I do?

And there will be open Q&A so you can ask YOUR questions!

Module 1- February 11, 5:30pm PT
Set Yourself Up to Have Fun and Meet Some Excellent Men

Online dating can be fun and lead you to love, or it can exhaust you and break your heart. You’re going to learn how to approach and use online dating in the most enjoyable and productive way.

In this module, I’m going to answer these questions:

  • Is there a particular site that is better for women my age?
  • There are women who are meeting lots of men and having fun. What are they doing that I’m not?
  • How do I deal with the rejection and not give up?
  • I’m really busy! How can I fit this in and be as efficient as possible?
  • What can I tell myself when I feel like crap or when I feel like I’m spinning out of control?
  • Don’t all the men want younger women? Why am I bothering?
  • What dating sites are best for larger/taller/women like me?
  • Should I go on more than one site?
  • What about Tinder and other ways to meet men? Should I try those?

And there will be open Q&A so you can ask YOUR questions!

Module 3 – February 25, 5:30pm PT
Ace the Email Exchange So You Move On To Dates - With the RIGHT Men and on YOUR Terms

You don’t want a pen pal, right? You’re going to learn my very powerful formula for writing emails that get opened and get responses. You’ll also learn the few powerful words that get him to do what you want him to...and be glad to do it.
In this module, I’m going to answer these questions:

  • Is it okay for me to send the first email?
  • Is there anything I can do when a man I’m interested in stops emailing?
  • How long do guys want to email before they set up a date?
  • What am I supposed to write in a first email to a man without sounding like I'm interviewing him?
  • I’m emailing with a guy for a while. How do I know if I’m wasting my time?
  • Some men want to go so fast! How do I slow them down?
  • What are the reg flags? How do I quickly spot scammers, married men and one-night-standers?
  • How do I stop the scammers and total jerks from contacting me?
  • Do I respond when I’m not interested and what do I say?
  • What do I do about guys who email me from other parts of the country? Do I just ignore them?

And there will be open Q&A so you can ask YOUR questions!

Module 4- March 3, 5:30pm PT
Uncover the Hidden Gems: Man-Shopping Grownup Style

There are SO many good men that you are missing! Become the MASTER of your experience by learning how to spot the good guys and then reach out to them. And since you’re now the queen of email writing, they are going to write you back and set up dates. Voila!

  • What if I’m above his age range? Should I bother?
  • So many profiles are so boring! How can I tell if he’s worth contacting?
  • What if he has photos on his motorcycle and I hate them?
  • How do I spot the scammers, liars and players?
  • What are the red flags I should look for and avoid?
  • Is there a way I can tell if he’s really looking for a relationship?
  • What if he has something suggestive or offensive in his profile?
  • Are there any good reasons a man wouldn't have pictures?

And there will be open Q&A so you can ask YOUR questions!

Module 5- March 10, 5:30pm PT
Fill In All Your Blanks With Focused Coaching

Maybe your profile isn't quite attracting the men you want to meet. Maybe a guy you've met is confusing you with mixed signals. Maybe you're falling for a man and you want to know how to slow down. Or you haven't seen anyone you like yet and you can't figure out why? (I know!)

You are going to get answers to your questions during this open coaching session. You can ask me anything!

  • How do I decide to go out with him a second time?
  • How can I change my profile to attract different kind of men?
  • Is it okay to communicate with more than one man at a time? If so, how do I keep it straight?
  • I know this takes time. How do I stay motivated?
  • How do I tell him I'm not ready for sex?
  • Is there a way I can tell if he’s really into me/li>

    You are going to learn so much over these 5 weeks, and start having new experiences with men. I will be here to inform, encourage and support you!

I'VE MET SOMEONE AND I THINK IT MIGHT BE MY FOREVER THING.

You have a special insight into helping women find the right man and not settle for a man just because he wants her. I listened and learned, had fun, and moved on until this guy landed in just the right spot. I will continue to hear and learn from you. Stay in the light, Bobbi. You are awesome! - Nickie A.

BEFORE BOBBI I WAS NEGATIVE, HOPELESS, IN MY HEAD TELLING MYSELF STORIES OS WHY I'D NEVER FIND A GREAT RELATIONSHIP. NOW I'M POSITIVE, REALISTIC AND HOPEFUL!

Bobbi taught me to value myself, to get clear about my true desires for a relationship, to know my must-haves and deal breakers, and to pay attention to how I feel when I'm in the presence of a man. Prior to working with Bobbi my dating life was nonexistent -I hadn't been dating for over a year and had no success prior to that either. I really felt that I might never meet a good man in my lifetime. Most of all she has taught me how to date like a grownup. Bobbi is the most compassionate, down to earth, and nurturing coach one can hope for. She never made me feel like I was in boot camp facing a rough instructor. Rather than getting unsolicited advice and lectures from friends and family, I received sound advice from a knowledgeable professional who had my back and my best interest at heart. - Nooshin

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Nooshin S.

SINCE I STARTED ONLINE DATING LESS THAN A MONTH AGO, I'VE GONE ON A FEW FIRST DATES AND HAVE HAD FUN! BOBBI'S SOUND, SAGE ADVICE ALLOWED ME TO CALM DOWN AND JUST RELAX AND SMILE.

Prior to working with Bobbi my dating life was nonexistent -I hadn't been dating for over a year and had no success prior to that either. I really felt that I might never meet a good man in my lifetime. Before Bobbi I was negative, hopeless, in my head, and now I am positive, realistic, and hopeful. Bobbi taught me to value myself, to get clear about my true desires for a relationship, to know my must-haves and deal breakers, and to pay attention to how I feel when I'm in the presence of a man. Most of all she has taught me how to date like a grownup. Bobbi is the most compassionate, down to earth, and nurturing coach one can hope for. She never made me feel like I was in boot camp facing a rough instructor. Rather than getting unsolicited advice and lectures from friends and family, I received sound advice from a knowledgeable professional who had my back and my best interest at heart. - Nooshin S.

WHAT I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AND MEN COULD FILL VOLUMES, AND, I AM HAVING FUN DATING!!

I have been married twice, I am 60, and I did something very nurturing for myself 5 months ago: I hired Bobbi Palmer to help me get past my fears, and get into the 'dating waters' so I can find my last husband. If you’re serious about finding the right guy, work with Bobbi . She is very smart, compassionate, and is ALWAYS right (which drives me crazy)! She has walked this path, so she knows! –Pegi, 60

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Pegi B.

WHAT I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AND MEN COULD FILL VOLUMES, AND, I AM HAVING FUN DATING!!

I have been married twice, I am 60, and I did something very nurturing for myself 5 months ago: I hired Bobbi Palmer to help me get past my fears, and get into the 'dating waters' so I can find my last husband. If you’re serious about finding the right guy, work with Bobbi . She is very smart, compassionate, and is ALWAYS right (which drives me crazy)! She has walked this path, so she knows! –Pegi B, 60

I'M VERY EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE THAT WE WILL BE GETTING MARRIED IN APRIL ON A CRUISE TO THE CARIBBEAN!!!

You are an angel in my life, and it's no accident our paths have crossed! I'm so grateful for your guidance, Bobbi! Thank you so much! I'm blissfully in love and having the time of my life with this amazing man! I definitely would not be where I am today without your guidance and support! Thank you so much for helping me to manifest my dreams into reality!! Rebecca, 40

I THOUGHT I KNEW MEN, BUT I WAS CLUELESS! IT'S SO GREAT TO HEAR FROM THE MEN THAT THEY REALLY DON'T ALL GO FOR YOUNGER WOMEN.

I now realize that I’m the kind of woman men want. Thank you Bobbi! It was so great to hear it from the horse’s mouth. – Sally S.

THANKS TO YOU I'VE BEEN TAPPING INTO MY FEMINIE ENERGY MORE AND MORE - AND MEN ARE LOOKING AT ME!

I wear the same hair (well, it's growing), the same clothes. I have the same plump thighs, take the same public transportation, shop at the same stores. Your methods are working!
–Sarah, 45

JUST LAST NIGHT HE SAID HE WOULD LOVE US TO BE MARRIED WITHIN THE YEAR!

Bobbi: Out of all my friends, you, who I have never met face to face, have given me the best guidance ever! Joe IS such a quality man, and I am soooo very happy. Our relationship just keeps getting better and better all the time. Just last night he said he would like us to be married within the year! And I have to agree with him...we feel really great together. I appreciate you so very much, and your coaching is right on! Thank you for helping me notice this good man and realize what love is for the first time in my life, Bobbi! - Shari, 50

JUST LAST NIGHT HE SAID HE WOULD LIKE US TO BE MARRIED WITHIN THE YEAR! AND I HAVE TO AGREE WITH HIM... WE FEEL REALLY GREAT TOGETHER.

Bobbi's advice was absolutely perfect...out of all my friends, Bobbi—who I have never met face to face—has given me the best guidance ever! Joe is such a quality man, and I am soooo very happy. Our relationship just keeps getting better and better all the time.
Shari, 49

Joe and I have now been together for 3 ½ years and he invites me to feel all the feelings I’ve fantasized about, and more!

Before working with Bobbi, I had no problem meeting men, just not the right kind of man. Disappointed and heart broken for 7 years, it seemed like I could never meet the kind of man who wanted a long term relationship, was thoughtful of me, was someone could trust, or who would make a great husband.
Being a single mother to a lovely young and impressionable daughter, I needed and wanted to be a good example to her. I was more like the example to her of what "not" to do. I longed to be in a healthy, loving, respectful, fun relationship, but felt defeated and hopeless.

Bobbi taught me the most valuable lesson: It’s all about Me. My focus shifted from does he like me, to do I LIKE HIM? With
Bobbi’s coaching and thought provoking questions, I gained the confidence I was missing. Best of all, I learned to let go of my “list” and honed in on how I wanted to FEEL with my partner.

Without Bobbi, I would not have recognized Joe as the perfect partner for me – but he is exactly that – perfect for me! Bobbi’s coaching gave me a new perspective and changed my life forever. - Shari B, 53

Bobbi is so perceptive. She sees through BS; always with diplomacy & kindness. Get ready to focus, or learn how to, on yourself and what you want. She is a true resource. Having been there, and able to transfer what she learned about for herself, she is the master at providing the tools women need. And I know that her clients who "go away happy" are an honest thrill for her.
Shari, 50 Telluride, CO

I AM HAPPIER THAN I'VE BEEN IN A LONG TIME. OH YEA - THE DATING PART: MEN ARE TRIPPING (LITERALLY) OVER THEMSELVES TO GET TO ME, WHICH IS NIIIICE.

My life has changed dramatically since taking your course. Taking your program was the start of giving myself permission to nurture "me" for the first time in years. As a result, my relationship with myself and everyone else improved. I hope your clients realize that although your seminar is about dating, women must be in a place where dating can happen and morph into a relationship, the first step of which is to clear the path of debris. Evidently, the process that you have in place was what I needed, and clearing debris has been smooth, uplifting and lightening. - Sharyn, 65

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Sharyn

I AM HAPPIER THAN I'VE BEEN IN A LONG TIME. OH YEA - THE DATING PART: MEN ARE TRIPPING (LITERALLY) OVER THEMSELVES TO GET TO ME, WHICH IS NIIIICE.

My life has changed dramatically since taking your course. Taking your program was the start of giving myself permission to nurture "me" for the first time in years. As a result, my relationship with myself and everyone else improved. I hope your clients realize that although your seminar is about dating, women must be in a place where dating can happen and morph into a relationship, the first step of which is to clear the path of debris. Evidently, the process that you have in place was what I needed, and clearing debris has been smooth, uplifting and lightening. - Sharyn, 65

Get this book and find the 'Mr. Worthy' of the super-woman that you truly are!!"

This book is a fabulous and practical guide to tapping into your own geyser of confidence to joyfully attract mature and fulfilling relationships into your life. It's a powerful compass for any single gal navigating the seas of dating. Stop settling...don't give up. Get this book and find the 'Mr. Worthy' of the super-woman that you truly are!!" ~ Sherry Fetzer, www.sherryfetzer.com

Get this book and find the 'Mr. Worthy' of the super-woman that you truly are!!"

This book is a fabulous and practical guide to tapping into your own geyser of confidence to joyfully attract mature and fulfilling relationships into your life. It's a powerful compass for any single gal navigating the seas of dating . Stop settling...don't give up. Get this book and find the 'Mr. Worthy' of the super-woman that you truly are!! Sherry Fetzer, www.sherryfetzer.com

BOBBI'S IMPROVEMENTS TO MY MATCH PROFILE INCREASED MY EMAILS AND WINKS IMMEDIATELY AND IT WAS A NO-BRAINER FOR ME. I ACTUALLY HAVE TO CREATE A SYSTEM TO KEEP MY COMMUNICATION WITH MEN ON MATCH STRAIGHT!

Bobbi put my words and opinions into "man speak." She asked me several questions that were fun to answer and in the answering, she provided insight into my own attitudes and obstacles about dating. Priceless!
–Stephanie G.

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Hedy S.

WITHOUT BOBBI'S ADVICE AND GUIDANCE, I WOULDN'T HAVE FOUND THE WONDERFUL MAN THAT I'M SHARING THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH.

I wasn’t actively dating because I wasn’t sure at this stage in my life that I would really find a good match. I was a successful career woman with wonderful friends and family…wasn’t that enough? Bobbi opened me up to the possibility and got me out there and online. She had a wonderful story to tell about how she met her soul mate and convinced me it could happen for me too. She helped me with my profile and ideas of where and how to meet men…but mostly she helped me get up the nerve to actually do it.

Bobbi’s expert coaching and her compassionate interest in helping you achieve your ultimate dating goal is invaluable. Without Bobbi’s advice and guidance, I wouldn’t have found the wonderful man that I'm sharing the rest of my life with. I couldn’t give a higher recommendation. - Hedy S, 51

HONESTLY, YOU UNDERSTAND MEN, UNLIKE MANY OTHER CLUELESS WRITERS AND COACHES.

Your advice is mostly spot on and I am sure that some of your clients might initially resist because what you say is contrary to much of the political correctness that surrounds gender expectations. I read a great deal of what men are saying online (away from the mass media) in regards to dating and relationships. Carry on with your bad self and keep up the good work! - Drew Hansen, Male Dating Coach

I STARTED MEETING SOME QUALITY MEN FOR THE FIRST TIME, AND EVENTUALLY MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.

I love Bobbi's kindness, patience, and exceptional coaching advice. In just a short time Bobbi moved me along from being scared to having fun dating. She's the master at Dating Like a Grownup! Bobbi rewrote my online dating profile and helped select pictures. She educated me on how to select men to meet and how to write and answer emails. (My emails got answered for the first time ever!)

This may sound simple, but having Bobbi on your side is like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. I hope other ladies in their 40s, 50s and 60s who want a relationship but are scared and lonely find Bobbi and invest in their future. I thank you, Bobbi, from the bottom of my heart. You have given me hope, results, and now love. - Karen C, 65

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Kassy L.

I AM POSITIVE AND FEEL DESIRABLE. THAT IS A HUGE CHANGE.

I also have a better understanding of what I want and am looking for. It makes me feel in charge – that I am not sitting around waiting for a nice guy to come along who I have to not only accept but also convince! I am looking for what I want and actively taking charge of finding him. And until I do, I am happy working on me and being happy with me. It’s an important step as I am not sure I have ever truly felt this way. Rather than saying “there are no guys” I find myself now focusing on “I have not found him yet.” Thanks so much for your brilliance and your loving support, Bobbi! - Kassy L.

Update: Kassy is now happily living with the man of her dreams!

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Debbie M.

YOU HAVE HELPED ME GET THROUGH SOME MOMENTS OF QUESTIONS THAT COULD HAVE RUINED THINGS.

I am glowing, and I can't help but tell everyone how happy I am and that there truly are great men out there. I am so happy that I have let down the walls and am letting this relationship blossom into something amazing. - Debbie M, 53

This information about thinking about myself first is awesome. I always make the relationship all about him and I just follow along. This is an entire new way to look at dating and building a relationship.

Thanks, Bobbi! - Sue

THANKS TO YOU I AM DATING NOT ONE BUT TWO VERY GROWN UP, KIND, LOVELY MEN - I AM HAVING THE TIME OF MY LIFE BECAUSE OF YOU!

Your program was everything you promised and more. I had been online dating for 6 months and had given up hope. You were sooo right. They are out there, if you learn how to attract them! You gave me KEY critical information that changed everything, and set me up for fun and success. I am 100% sure that’s what got me where I am today. Thank you for helping me realize my dreams!” –Susan

Dating Expert Bobbi Palmer's Grownup Love Success Story: Susan E.

After the TODAY show workshop I decided to take a risk. I had been emailing someone on match.com, but we hadn't met because I didn't think he was my type. I called him, we had a great conversation; we met and found we had a lot in common. We're now on our fifth date!

My romantic life used to be Crash & Burn; I kept making the same mistakes. As Bobbi pointed out, I was actually choosing the same guy over and over. It was time for a change! Bobbi taught me to be patient, how to show my fabulous feminine side, how to have fun, and to not let HIM decide if I’m good enough. I should decide if being around him is making ME happy and allowing me to feel good about myself. I never would have dreamed that I needed this help. Luckily, I had the opportunity to work with Bobbi! It has made a world of difference in how I am communicating with men, and I'm attracting some amazing guys I never would have thought about before. For the first time it's easy and really fun!
- Susan E, 55

Luckily, I had the opportunity to work with Bobbi! It has made a world of difference in how I am communicating with men, and I'm attracting some amazing guys I never would have thought about before. For the first time it's easy and really fun!

My romantic life used to be Crash & Burn; I kept making the same mistakes. As Bobbi pointed out, I was actually choosing the same guy over and over. It was time for a change! Bobbi taught me to be patient, how to show my fabulous feminine side, how to have fun, and to not let HIM decide if I’m good enough. I should decide if being around him is making ME happy and allowing me to feel good about myself. I never would have dreamed that I needed this help. Luckily, I had the opportunity to work with Bobbi! It has made a world of difference in how I am communicating with men, and I'm attracting some amazing guys I never would have thought about before. For the first time it's easy and really fun!
- Susan E, 55

THANKS TO YOU I'M NOW OPEN TO CONVERSATIONS WITH MEN I DON'T KNOW. I SMILE. I FEEL KINDER AND LIGHTER.

On the bus a guy complimented my hair. I thanked him, trying not to blush. (I'm a 40 year-old blusher!) Then, with my newly learned feminine energy and courage, I sweetly wished him a pleasant day. He thanked me and told me I was beautiful. ME! All because I changed the energy I put out there! Who knew?!? It’s so Fun! – Terri, 40

AS A PSYCHOTHERAPIST IN PRIVATE PRACTICE, I KNOW THIS BOOK WILL BE USEFUL TO MY CLIENTS WHO ARE SEARCHING FOR LOVE.

I love Bobbi's eBook for finding meaningful love after 40. Her "Four Commandments" in each section focus on the information, and give you specific guidelines to follow. I love the way Bobbi uses the readers' own life experience, showing how to use the lessons she’s learned already in life to make her dreams come true. - Tina B. Tessina, PhD, "Dr. Romance" psychotherapist and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again (Wiley, NY 2002)

AS A PSYCHOTHERAPIST IN PRIVATE PRACTICE, I KNOW THIS BOOK WILL BE USEFUL TO MY CLIENTS WHO ARE SEARCHING FOR LOVE.

This is a great book for finding meaningful love after 40. I love Bobbi’s "Four Commandments" in each section. They focus the information, and give you specific guidelines to follow. I love the way Bobbi uses the readers' own life experience, showing her how to use the lessons she’s learned already in life to make her dreams come true. Tina B. Tessina, PhD, "Dr. Romance" psychotherapist and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again

WE ARE IN LOVE AND SO HAPPY…

I purchased your online dating webinar and learned so much. After heeding your great advice, I met John, and communicated the way you advised. Now, nearly 8 months later we are in love and so happy.

I’m 47 and he’s 51. I’m listening to my head as well as my heart, and I truly believe I’ve finally met the love of my life. Turns out mid-life can be a great time to find an amazing match – you know this yourself and have learned so much along the way.

I wanted to share a word of encouragement to all the over 40 ladies out there – don’t give up – there’s so much life left to live and you deserve it! Let Bobbi help you get online and meet your great man. Thanks Bobbi – you are such a great resource – keep up the good work! - Linda H., 47