Kamala Harris and I have some important Love Lessons for you if you’re a mature single woman looking for love. My proud lefty, progressive, feminist self is over the moon with the woman who will be the next Vice President of the United States. I personally cannot wait to watch her verbally kick Mike Pence’s […]
Since I specialize in helping women over 40 find love, clients often ask about dating a widower. Is it a waste of time? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: Widowers are some of the best, most eligible, grownup men out there. One of the most […]
Are you still thinking that dating mature men is the same as dating those boys you used to date? I have a question for you: When you look at yourself today, are you the same person you were in your 20s or 30s? Have many of your priorities changed? Has experience taught you new life […]
Sometime you can’t get men to talk on dates. But I hear stories all the time about men talking too much on dates. They blab their heads off as the woman sits quietly nodding and “uh-hu-ing.” (Notice I didn’t say she was listening.) Inevitably, these two will never have another date…unless the woman exercises […]
I’ve heard it more times than I can count: “He’s got everything I’m looking for… he just won’t make a commitment.” The other day I heard that through the sobs of my gorgeous, ambitious, loving friend. She’s been with her man for over a year. Including this one little word — JUST — is an […]
You’re dating a man and noticing his flaws. How do you know when it’s time to break up with him? Here’s how you make a good decision.
How do you find quality men? You know…the ones I tell you that are everywhere? If you have uttered the words “there are no good men out there” I have this question for you: Will you know him when you see him? There seem to be three common reasons why women feel they aren’t connecting […]
This week the USA celebrates its Independence Day. That was a day I used to celebrate for myself every day: INDEPENDENCE! Now, after 14 years of being married to a man who values my independence AND opens pickle jars for me, lends his fine brain to my decision-making, and generally has my back…I am proud […]
I know it’s daunting to think about how you’re going to survive Valentine’s Day as a newly single woman. I’ve asked Nancy Deen, my friend who happens to be an expert breakup coach, to help you. Here you go…from Nancy: I have had my fair share of breakups, I know it can be painful to […]
When it comes to choosing a forever partner, what do mature men want from women? As always, I’m talking about Good Grownup Men. What these guys are looking for in a forever partner is different than what 20 or 30-something men are looking for. Knowing the difference will help you make truly deep connections with […]
