Relationships

Dting a Widower

Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… Read more

Finding New Friends Over 50

Finding New Friends Over 50: Feeling Lonely? You Are Not Alone

Girlfriend, do you need some new girlfriends?  One of the biggest challenges my clients have is finding new friends over 50. Most of their girlfriends at this age are either seriously coupled or they skew… Read more

Should You Commit to a Relationship? Ask These Questions First.

Deborah contacted me and asked a question I get often: should I commit to a relationship with the guy I’ve been dating? She and John have been dating for 4 months and she was wondering… Read more

What Will You Have to Give Up In a Relationship?

I asked my Facebook community “What do you enjoy doing as a single woman that you would NEVER want to give up in a relationship? I wondered because I know that before I was married… Read more

Is He Into Me

Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first “hello” or glance across the room. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates from there.… Read more

Are Your Expectations of Men Realistic? Straight Talk for Grownup Women.

Have you ever wondered “are my expectations of men realistic?” I can tell you with 99% certainty that, no, they are not. And that may be the very thing that is keeping you single. Not… Read more

Are Your Expectations of Men Based in Fear?

Are your expectations of men based on fear? Good chance they are and that’s likely sabotaging your relationships with good men. Give this a read to see if you’re fears are getting in the way… Read more

He Doesn’t Hear Me When I Talk – What Should I Do?

Dating Advice for Women over 40: I talk, but he doesn’t hear me. What should I do? I provide all my private coaching clients with a 911 call option so they can call me when… Read more

what men want from women

What DO Men Want from You? This Man Tells You.

I’ve learned a lot about what men want in my 10+ years of helping women find love after 40. (As always, I’m only talking about mature, high-integrity, relationship-minded men. We don’t care about any others,… Read more

Meet Single Men

How to Meet Single Men Everywhere

“Bobbi, how do I meet single men? Where are all the good, single men –  you know, the ones I WANT to date?” I get asked this question daily and I always want to laugh.… Read more