Relationships

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Should You Commit to a Relationship? Ask These Questions First.

Deborah contacted me and asked a question I get often: should I commit to a relationship with the guy I’ve been dating? She and John have been dating for 4 months and she was wondering… read the full post…

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What Will You Have to Give Up In a Relationship?

I asked my Facebook community “What do you enjoy doing as a single woman that you would NEVER want to give up in a relationship? I wondered because I know that before I was married… read the full post…

Is He Into Me

Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first “hello” or glance across the room. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates from there.… read the full post…

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Are Your Expectations of Men Realistic? Straight Talk for Grownup Women.

Have you ever wondered “are my expectations of men realistic?” I can tell you with 99% certainty that, no, they are not. And that may be the very thing that is keeping you single. Not… read the full post…

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Are Your Expectations of Men Based in Fear?

Are your expectations of men based on fear? Good chance they are and that’s likely sabotaging your relationships with good men. Give this a read to see if you’re fears are getting in the way… read the full post…

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He Doesn’t Hear Me When I Talk – What Should I Do?

Dating Advice for Women over 40: I talk, but he doesn’t hear me. What should I do? I provide all my private coaching clients with a 911 call option so they can call me when… read the full post…

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What DO Men Want from You? This Man Tells You.

I’ve learned a lot about what men want in my almost 10 years of helping women find love after 40. (As always, I’m only talking about mature, high-integrity, relationship-minded men. We don’t care about any… read the full post…

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How to Meet Single Men Everywhere

“Bobbi, how do I meet single men? Where are all the good, single men –  you know, the ones I WANT to date?” I get asked this question daily and I always want to laugh.… read the full post…

Find Love After 40

6 Compelling Reasons to Find Love After 40

What if I told you that falling in love when you’re 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? When you find love after 40 it is eons better than when you are 18… read the full post…

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Dating After Breast Cancer: How to Talk About Your Boobs

In recognition of October being breast cancer awareness month, I am addressing this very common dilemma of  dating after breast cancer. Go here for more information about breast cancer awareness. Today I’m sharing a question from… read the full post…