Continuing from the previous post… How did I move from 30 years of super-singledom to living in the gorgeous mountains of Mexico, ready to retire with my grownup, adorable, devoted Larry? I had to shift… Read more

 Sometime you can’t get men to talk on dates. But I hear stories all the time about men talking too much on dates. They blab their heads off as the woman sits quietly nodding… Read more

I’ve heard it more times than I can count: “He’s got everything I’m looking for… he just won’t make a commitment.” The other day I heard that through the sobs of my gorgeous, ambitious, loving… Read more

You’re dating a man and noticing his flaws. How do you know when it’s time to break up with him? Here’s how you make a good decision.

As always, I am (re)posting the tribute I wrote to my Dad in 2012. He taught me such meaningful lessons about life and love. He was a smart man, though I didn’t know it for… Read more

How do you find quality men? You know…the ones I tell you that are everywhere? If you have uttered the words “there are no good men out there” I have this question for you: Will… Read more

Are you a smart, independent, single woman who is dating after 40 and having a hell of a time finding good men to date? Are you starting to think there are just no good men… Read more

Wisdom: The quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment. Fortitude: Strength of mind that enables a person to encounter danger or bear pain or adversity with courage. Do you sometimes feel scared of dating… Read more

Kamala Harris and I have some important Love Lessons for you if you’re a mature single woman looking for love. My proud lefty, progressive, feminist self is over the moon with the woman who will… Read more