Dating after 40 and Beyond

He ghosted you

He Ghosted You. WTF? Why and What Should You Do Now?

You went on a date or two or three. You liked him, and he seemed into you. Then, without warning…no return texts, no calls, he even blocked you on Facebook. That bastard…he ghosted you! Welcome… Read more

Want to find love – let go

Want to Find Love? Smart Women Don’t Make Love Happen – They LET Love Happen

The women I am lucky enough to coach come to me because they want to find love. They have had career success, family success, and they’ve already ticked a lot off their bucket list.  Now they are… Read more

profile photos

Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

Posting online profile photos can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women dating after 40. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is… Read more

Man and woman discussing how long should they wait to have sex

How Long Should I Wait to Have Sex?

There is a lot at stake at the beginning of a relationship, so it pays to ask yourself the question, “How long should I wait to have sex?” Sex can be a glorious part of… Read more

Dting a Widower

Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… Read more

Finding New Friends Over 50

Finding New Friends Over 50: Feeling Lonely? You Are Not Alone

Girlfriend, do you need some new girlfriends?  One of the biggest challenges my clients have is finding new friends over 50. Most of their girlfriends at this age are either seriously coupled or they skew… Read more

The Key to Finding Love is Believing You Deserve It

Have you ever noticed how, when things go well for us, we women say how “lucky” or “blessed” we are? And men, not so much. Men seem to have an innate sense of entitlement when… Read more

What if This is Your Last Valentine’s Day as a Single Woman?

What if you KNEW this was going to be your last Valentine’s Day as a single woman? The last one spent with “me, myself and I,” with a pack of single girlfriends or alone on… Read more

Do You Test Men Like I Did? (It’s a Wall of I Dare You)

For the past several days I’ve been sharing my There-to-Here story. Yep, this another long email. I have SO much to share and teach you. It will only take you 10 minutes to read this.… Read more

It’s NOT the size of your thighs, sister!

I’m back to continue my story of how I got from “there to here.” Last time I shared my Big Lesson #1: You DO need a stinkin’ man. I finally learned that our “I don’t need a… Read more