New year, clean slate, time to meet single men, right? Well, right. But if you haven’t been doing much of that lately, it’s time to change something up. Read this and get started today. I’m… Read more

The general belief is that you learn a lot about someone by knowing about their past marriages and romances that didn’t work out.  Find out the details about his past relationships and you’ll get a… Read more

OK, Ladies, are you ready to truly understand what single men want from grownup women like you? Can you handle the truth? Of course you can. You are an empathetic woman. You know that understanding… Read more

Trying to find love after 40, 50, 60 or beyond? It can be frustrating, I know. Been there! I’m writing today about the story of my journey to finding love at 47. Specifically, one thing I… Read more

Needy women attract good men.  Low-maintenance women attract jerks…or no men at all. Is this counter to what you’ve always thought? Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he’d… Read more

“Bobbi, how do I meet single men? Where are all the good, single men –  you know, the ones I WANT to date?” I get asked this question daily and I always want to laugh.… Read more

Hey…that’s ME! I was recently interviewed by the website DatingAdvice.com about how I support women dating after 40. I know you have very special needs and unique challenges. Like I said during my interview: Grownups have a… Read more

Last night was my Grownup Girls’ Night Out webcast. I’ve been doing this live for about 2 1/2 years now. Every month I get online with hundreds of women and coach/train on a new topic… Read more

What if I told you that falling in love when you’re 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? When you find love after 40 it is eons better than when you are 18… Read more