Are your expectations of men based on old stories and past hurts? Good chance they are and it’s likely that fear is sabotaging your love life. Give this a read to see if you’re fears… Read more

You know how I’m always encouraging (ok nagging) you to be more feminine when you are with men? The female, womanly part is inside all of us, but most often it’s locked away under a… Read more

You see an online profile of a guy who seems great. Or you show up to your coffee date and wowza, he’s way cuter, nicer, smarter, funnier than you expected. How to let him know… Read more

Want to be happy with a man? Learn how to ask for what you want in a kind, non-threatening way, is the strongest tool you can use in a relationship. Here’s how.

Posting online profile photos can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women dating after 40. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge, but the posting pictures part is… Read more

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of the… Read more

I can say — completely unashamedly — that my years as a married woman have been the absolute best of my life. Hands down. First, I had to I had to ask myself the question:… Read more

The Kavanaugh hearings are freaking painful. Personally, I’ve tried to go on some kind of news blackout but it’s unavoidable. It’s everywhere in the news. (Real and fake news *choke*.) Everyone is talking about it.… Read more

Can’t wait? Hear me now on Feisty Side of Fifty podcast.  I am a hippie at heart. I have a penchant for beads, flowy dresses, tie-dye, Joni Mitchell, Jackson Browne, and Phoebe Snow. I guess… Read more