You DO Need a Stinkin’ Man, sister

(This is the second of four posts that teach you my “There-to-Here” story. Yep, they’re long. And the 10 minutes it takes you to read this RIGHT NOW may alter the course of your life…directly toward grownup love. Today’s post… Read more

Ever Say “My Life is Great…BUT…?” (Let’s take care of that But!)

Do you ever look back at your old diary or journal entries? It can be pretty dang enlightening. A while ago I came across a diary entry of mine from Valentine’s Day 2001. I was 42.… Read more

Why Can’t I Find Love?

Wondering Why Can’t I Find Love? Here are 47 Things Standing in Your Way

I can say — completely unashamedly — that my years as a married woman have been the absolute best of my life. Hands down. First, I had to I had to ask myself the question:… Read more

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The Truth about Single Men and Strong Women

Are you a smart, independent, single woman who is dating after 40 and having a hell of a time finding good men to date? Are you starting to think there are just no good men… Read more

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Single Over 40? 3 Simple Steps to Get You Unstuck

By the time I was 47 and never married or even in a long-term relationship I was the epitome of tired of being single. Now, even though I’ve been happily married for 12 years, I… Read more

Bobbi Palmer

A Personal Message for the New Year – Let’s Move Forward!

Happy 2019! I am going to do all I can to help you make this the year you get unstuck and start living the life you are imagining…and meant to live! Watch this short video… Read more

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Should You Lie About Your Age in Your Profile? (Video)

Here is an email I recently received: “I just got up my courage and took a look at the dating site Our Time, and here is one of my big concerns: I’m 68 but most… Read more

Single During the Holidays? How to Avoid Feeling like Crap

This time of year is spectacular. Or not. Yes, we get to eat more, work less, shop till we drop, and frolic with friends and family. Also, it’s a time of reflection; and as we… Read more

Over 40 and Single? Happy Sassy Holidays!

Every year I write some version of “Over-40 and Single: How to Survive the Holidays”, like How to Not Feel Like Crap this Year, or How to Avoid the Blues this December… I encourage you… Read more

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Dirty John and the Lessons for Mature Women Dating

Dirty John was a podcast and is now a mini-series on Bravo about a middle-aged woman who meets a man online and enters into a whirlwind courtship. It ends horribly, practically destroying her and her entire family.… Read more