Should I Break Up With Him? 3 Steps to Help You Decide.

You’re dating a man and noticing his flaws. How do you know when it’s time to break up with him? Here’s how you make a good decision.

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Delicious Life Lessons I Learned from My Father

As always, I am (re)posting the tribute I wrote to my Dad in 2012. He taught me such meaningful lessons about life and love. He was a smart man, though I didn’t know it for… Read more

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How to Find Quality Men (Like a Grownup)

How do you find quality men? You know…the ones I tell you that are everywhere? If you have uttered the words “there are no good men out there” I have this question for you: Will… Read more

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Online Dating During the COVID19 Pandemic – Study Results

What’s it like to use online dating during COVID-19? Consumer protection website Sitejabber analyzed thousands of dating app reviews and discovered some interesting trends about the state of online dating during the pandemic. Here’s what… Read more

Protected: The Truth About Single Men and Strong Women

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Scared of Dating? You’ve Slain Worse Dragons, Girlfriend.

Wisdom: The quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment. Fortitude: Strength of mind that enables a person to encounter danger or bear pain or adversity with courage. Do you sometimes feel scared of dating… Read more

7 Love Lessons for Women Dating After 40 From Kamala Harris

Kamala Harris and I have some important Love Lessons for you if you’re a mature single woman looking for love. My proud lefty, progressive, feminist self is over the moon with the woman who will… Read more

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Online Profile Tips for Mature Women- A Guy’s Perspective

I hope you’re online, especially now with COVID 19. Today I’m giving you online profile tips for mature women (like you!) who are looking for a real grownup man. These tips come directly from a… Read more

Does Depending on a Man Scare You?

This week the USA celebrates its Independence Day. That was a day I used to celebrate for myself every day: INDEPENDENCE! Now, after 14 years of being married to a man who values my independence… Read more

How Your Mature Femininity Can Save the World

In the wake of this past Mother’s day, I wrote a very personal message to the women on my mailing list about how to embrace your incredibly powerful mature femininity. (If you’re not yet on… Read more