Dting a Widower

Dating a Widower: 4 Tips to Make It a Success

So often my clients ask about dating a widower. Is it a red flag? Should I proceed with caution? Is it a losing proposition? And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they… Read more

Finding New Friends Over 50

Finding New Friends Over 50: Feeling Lonely? You Are Not Alone

Girlfriend, do you need some new girlfriends?  One of the biggest challenges my clients have is finding new friends over 50. Most of their girlfriends at this age are either seriously coupled or they skew… Read more

The Key to Finding Love is Believing You Deserve It

Have you ever noticed how, when things go well for us, we women say how “lucky” or “blessed” we are? And men, not so much. Men seem to have an innate sense of entitlement when… Read more

What if This is Your Last Valentine’s Day as a Single Woman?

What if you KNEW this was going to be your last Valentine’s Day as a single woman? The last one spent with “me, myself and I,” with a pack of single girlfriends or alone on… Read more

Do You Test Men Like I Did? (It’s a Wall of I Dare You)

For the past several days I’ve been sharing my There-to-Here story. Yep, this another long email. I have SO much to share and teach you. It will only take you 10 minutes to read this.… Read more

Why Can’t I Find Love?

Wondering Why Can’t I Find Love? Here are 47 Things Standing in Your Way

I can say — completely unashamedly — that my years as a married woman have been the absolute best of my life. Hands down. First, I had to I had to ask myself the question:… Read more

Strong woman finding good men

The Truth about Single Men and Strong Women

Are you a smart, independent, single woman who is dating after 40 and having a hell of a time finding good men to date? Are you starting to think there are just no good men… Read more

woman tired of being single

Tired of Being Single? 3 Simple Steps to Get You Unstuck.

By the time I was 47 and never married or even in a long-term relationship I was the epitome of tired of being single. Now, even though I’ve been happily married since 2006, I still… Read more

Bobbi Palmer

A Personal Message for the New Year – Let’s Move Forward!

Happy 2019! I am going to do all I can to help you make this the year you get unstuck and start living the life you are imagining…and meant to live! Watch this short video… Read more

Lie about your age online profile

Should You Lie About Your Age in Your Profile? (Video)

Here is an email I recently received: “I just got up my courage and took a look at the dating site Our Time, and here is one of my big concerns: I’m 68 but most… Read more