A Quality Man

How to Avoid Loving a Jerk

Today’s post is an article written by my friend, colleague and mentor Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. Tina and I met a few years ago after I cited one of her articles in a blog post. I… Read more

Why Hasn’t He Called? I’m Going Crazy!

Of all the questions asked of me as a dating and relationship coach for women over 40, this is one of the most common: “Why hasn’t he called? I’m going crazy! What do I do?” (The… Read more

You Deserve True Love After 40

This weekend I attended a seminar about men and marriage with about 200 gorgeous, smart women. We were all there to learn about ourselves and about men. If I had to wrap it up into… Read more

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4 Things Single Men Over 40 Worry About

To continue in honor of Men’s Health Week, here is an article written by my friend and colleague, Marcus Osborne. Marcus is a smart, handsome, 40-something single guy whose mission in life is to help… Read more

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Where to Meet Single Men Over 40 (A Man’s Advice)

We LOVE men, don’t we? Well, there’s some interesting data that points to married men being healthier than their single counterparts… And I can’t think of a better way to help them stay healthy than… Read more

Don’t Sleep through your Sex Life

Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you’re in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy “being on hiatus.” And the… Read more

Two Simple Thoughts That Will Change the Way You Date

My guess is that you’ve been dating a while and not getting great results. You’re here reading this, after all. The best way to shift into having dates that render positive outcomes – like having… Read more

Single Over 40? Claim Your Power

As all you Americans know, we’re heading into one of our famous three-day weekends (non-Americans, play along please): Memorial Day. This is the official start of the summer season: a time to remember all those… Read more

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Nine Ways to Make Your Date Great

The first 10 minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is even going to happen. And let’s face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story… Read more

Are You Dating Like a Grownup?

I’m often asked what I mean by Dating Like a Grownup. It’s obviously a great question that I probably should answer every so often. (I am, after all, the CEO of Date Like a Grownup!)… Read more