Understanding Men

Why Does He Keep Disappearing and Reappearing?

So…your man gets in touch and stops. And keeps doing it. Why does he keep disappearing and reappearing? It’s frustrating, confusing and maddening, isn’t it? Well, sister, there’s a good chance you’re being “Pinged” and… Read more

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Should I Trust My Intuition About Men?

Dating is constant navigating, and if there’s one question I get asked frequently, it’s should I trust my intuition about men? The short answer on this may surprise you: NO. Intuition is a fabulous quality,… Read more

How Do I Break Up with Him Without Drama and Bad Feelings?

Let’s say you’ve dated someone for a month or a few months and you’ve decided to break up with him. You’ve given it your best shot, which means you’ve kept your mind open, focused on… Read more

How Do You Answer His Question When It Feels Rude or Scary?

When you’re dating and trying to get to know one another, there’s a good chance he’s going to ask you all kinds of questions. How do you answer his question that seems rude, or that… Read more

You Won’t Hate First Dates When You Follow These Tips

Do you hate first dates? Hey, I used the be the no-second-date queen! But now I know that first dates are wonderful opportunities, and I teach women how to make the very best of every one.… Read more

Should I Say Yes and Be Exclusive? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… Read more

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Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… Read more

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Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and Jerks How to Stop NOW!

Have you ever asked yourself ‘why do I keep attracting narcissists and jerky men’? If you are you a smart, kind, self-reliant and successful woman with a smattering of the usual insecurities…then you’re a sitting… Read more

Want to become a better dater and (man) lover? Learn what over-40 men face when dating. Surprise!!

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (Advice for Women)

I love men. I’m often asked whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men dating after 40. I don’t. But I DO help men by helping women who are dating after 40. (It really… Read more

What Do I Do When He’s Not Asking Me Out on a Real Date?

He emails and texts…and emails and texts. That’s it. The phone isn’t ringing and he’s not asking you out. All you want is for him to plan a freaking date so you can actually spend… Read more