Do you know that you are special, that you count big time, and that you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship? This is such a difficult concept for… Read more

Ever wonder why your first date goes great and yet he doesn’t call? Where are those damn second date invitations? Men can be far more in the moment than women are; especially when dating. He… Read more

Want to be a more confident woman when it comes to dating and men? Here is something you must know: Your fear of being rejected is exactly what is getting you rejected. ~ Bobbi Palmer Last week… Read more

When you’re dating, do you want to know as much as possible about a man, as quickly as possible? Especially for those of us “of a certain age;” life is too damn short to be… Read more

“What’s the biggest challenge women face when dating?” This is the question I get asked most often as a dating and relationship coach for women over 40.   And the interesting thing is that it’s mostly… Read more

How kind are you when you date? I know you’re well-mannered, but are you being kind to the men you meet? Here are definitions of “kind”: 1. Having or showing a tender, considerate and helpful… Read more

Are you resisting letting men help you or do nice things for you? Maybe you’re thinking it threatens your independence or makes you seem weak. Or maybe you’re just trying to be low-maintenance; thinking that… Read more

What are your fears about dating and looking for your mate? I had tons of things I was afraid of when I was dating. Mostly, I dreaded rejection with what felt like primal fear. With… Read more

Raise your hand if you can accurately read the minds of your girlfriends.  My guess is that, at least for a few, you actually can. Larry and I can read each other’s minds at times. … Read more