Meeting Men

Attract Smart Men

Two Things Smart Women Do to Attract Smart Men

If you’re a smart, accomplished woman who wants to attract smart men, but you think men don’t want to date you because of your smarts…think again. While it’s true that some men prefer less “challenging”… read the full post…

Find Love After 40

The #1 One Way to Find Love After 40 – Love Yourself, Sister

Trying to find love after 40, 50, 60 or beyond? It can be frustrating, I know. Been there! I’m writing today about the story of my journey to finding love at 47. Specifically, one thing I… read the full post…

Attract Good Men

Attract Good Men: Show You Need Them

Needy women attract good men.  Low-maintenance women attract jerks…or no men at all. Is this counter to what you’ve always thought? Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he’d… read the full post…

Meet Single Men

How to Meet Single Men Everywhere

“Bobbi, how do I meet single men? Where are all the good, single men –  you know, the ones I WANT to date?” I get asked this question daily and I always want to laugh.… read the full post…

Dating Profile Mistakes

5 DEAL BREAKER Online Dating Profile Mistakes!

Are you making online dating profile mistakes that scare men away? Not on purpose of course, but here are some signs you might be: Your inbox is empty. You’re only being contacted by couch potatoes,… read the full post…

Scared of Men or Dating? Check Out My RANT!

Last night was my Grownup Girls’ Night Out webcast. I’ve been doing this live for about 2 1/2 years now. Every month I get online with hundreds of women and coach/train on a new topic… read the full post…

Want to Control Your Love Life? Let Go! (Surprise!)

The women I am lucky enough to coach and support are in control of their lives. They have had career success, family success, and they’ve already ticked a lot off their bucket list.  Now they are laser-focused on… read the full post…

Mature couple first date second date

Meeting New Single Men: Don’t Blow It By Doing This

It seems to me that the older you get the easier it is to get off on the wrong foot when meeting new single men. He’s nervous, you’re nervous. You both have decades of expectations,… read the full post…

Should I Trust My Intuition About Men

Using Dating Mindfulness to Create Connection and Chemistry

Definition: “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn Sounds simple and kinda easy, right? Wrong! Why do you think Zen Buddhist monks meditate for… read the full post…

Dating to Find Love after 40: The Slower Road CAN Be Quicker

It’s a fact: when you are dating to find love, especially later in life, taking the slower road may be the best AND the quickest path. I admit that I love when I’m proven right.… read the full post…