Meeting Men

Want to Control Your Love Life? Let Go! (Surprise!)

The women I am lucky enough to coach and support are in control of their lives. They have had career success, family success, and they’ve already ticked a lot off their bucket list.  Now they are laser-focused on… read the full post…

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Meeting New Single Men: Don’t Blow It By Doing This

It seems to me that the older you get the easier it is to get off on the wrong foot when meeting new single men. He’s nervous, you’re nervous. You both have decades of expectations,… read the full post…

Should I Trust My Intuition About Men

Using Dating Mindfulness to Create Connection and Chemistry

Definition: “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn Sounds simple and kinda easy, right? Wrong! Why do you think Zen Buddhist monks meditate for… read the full post…

Dating to Find Love after 40: The Slower Road CAN Be Quicker

It’s a fact: when you are dating to find love, especially later in life, taking the slower road may be the best AND the quickest path. I admit that I love when I’m proven right.… read the full post…

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How Your Old Dating Rules are Keeping You Single

I’m writing this as my husband, Larry, and I drive back from our little hideaway in Baja. When we go, Larry takes care of most everything. Making the plans with our friends, grabbing the passports and… read the full post…

Bad Online Dating Profile for women over 40

The 5 Online Dating Profile Mistakes that Scare Men Away

Are you making any of the 5 online dating profile mistakes that scare men away? Here are signs you might be: Your inbox is empty. You’re only being contacted by couch potatoes, scammers and guys… read the full post…

Is He Into Me

Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first email or text. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates after the meet date,… read the full post…

10 Mini-Resolutions to Attract More Men You Want To Date

You want to attract more men, right? The right men? It’s both an art and a science. It’s about making some small adjustments, trying new things and just plain getting out of your rut. (And… read the full post…

10 Tiny Tweaks That Will Revive Your Dating Life

Not dating at all? Not feeling like it? Slogging through it like some job you have to do? Time to revive your dating life! If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always… read the full post…

When’s The Right Time to Be Exclusive With Him? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… read the full post…

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