Meeting Men

Is He Into Me

Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first email or text. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates after the meet date,… read the full post...

10 Mini-Resolutions to Attract More Men You Want To Date

You want to attract more men, right? The right men? It’s both an art and a science. It’s about making some small adjustments, trying new things and just plain getting out of your rut. (And… read the full post...

When’s The Right Time to Be Exclusive With Him? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… read the full post...

Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… read the full post...

Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and Jerks How to Stop NOW!

Have you ever asked yourself ‘why do I keep attracting narcissists and jerky men’? Well, if you are you a smart, kind, self-reliant and successful woman with a smattering of the usual insecurities…then you’re a… read the full post...

Why You’re Scared of Dating (and How to Dump that Fear)

I’ve been helping women over 40 find passionate, grownup love for 8 years. When these fabulous women come to me for support, most admit that they are scared of dating.  And most fall into three relationship categories: Women… read the full post...

Dateless During the Holidays: Tis the Season for Breakups and Bad Dates

Okay, let’s say it like it is: Being dateless for the holidays can suck. It can be a really funky time for single gals. At the same time your angst over being dateless for New Years Eve… read the full post...

The Slower Road to Love CAN Get You There Quicker (and Better)

I love it when I’m proven to be right. Especially when it comes to the things I teach, encourage and nag you to do in order to find love. When it comes to dating, here… read the full post...

The Secret to Learning About His Past Relationships (Without Ruining Yours)

The general belief is that you learn a lot about someone by knowing their relationship history. Find out the details about his marriages and romances that didn’t work out, and you’ll get a good idea… read the full post...

Couple on a date

The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to last week’s post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating… read the full post...