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The Complicated Truth About What Single Men Want On a Date

Have you ever wondered what single men want from you? You go out on a date, you have fun, you have great conversation, you think you showed up as your best, and you want to… Read more

How Your Dating Can Help Your Daughters

Happy Mother’s Day! In my mind, being a great Mother is the most difficult and most important job on Earth. Admittedly, I don’t know from personal experience, which is probably why I have such admiration… Read more

Are You Scaring Yourself Out of Love? (FemiType #3: The Scaredy Cat)

We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I’m sure you’ve encountered your share of Pingers, Needy-men and Players as you meet single men.… Read more

Bobbi Palmer on UBN Radio

Dish with Me & Mrs. D. – Hear My Horrible Dating Mistakes and More

Want to hear  how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the… Read more

Date Like a Grownup

How to Stop Being Your Own Bully When it Comes to Love and Dating

I’d like to start this article off by telling you that you are an AMAZING woman. The most beautiful thing you can do for yourself is to acknowledge and embrace just how special you are.… Read more

How Sitting in Your Sh*t Will Help You Let Love In

Today I’m talking to you about sitting in your sh*t so you can let love in. If you took the time to really think about it, there is so much junk that gets mucked up… Read more

Over 40 women crying about dating

Should You Take Dating Advice from Friends?

Do you take dating advice from friends? It often goes like this: You’ve met a new guy that you really like. You’ve gone on a second date and you’re pretty excited about him. You call… Read more

Single Over 40? Can You Embrace Your Real Power?

Yesterday was my granddaughter’s 13th birthday. She doesn’t live near us and it literally makes me cry that I can’t be there and be a bigger part of her life. She’s very special:  super smart,… Read more

Looking Good & Feeling Good-Some Tips

I read something interesting about men this week: In making a first impression with men, women have about 15 minutes. Women, on the other hand, take about an hour to make up their minds about… Read more

Feeling Rejected? Why You Should Be Happy – Part Two

We’ve been talking about feeling rejected, and why the pain you’re feeling may not be necessary at all. I know you’ve been waiting with bated breath! As promised, what follows is my seriously humiliating story… Read more