As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… Read more

I’m actually in Oakland Hills, CA, (not my usual Long Beach) where I’m hosting a two-day retreat for the graduates of my Love Program. I have to say that I love my Love Program. For… Read more

This is a second post from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  (You can read Part 1 here.) After experiencing so many women put themselves down, pull back from intimacy and not accept his compliments, he decided to… Read more

This post is from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  He took his time to share his experience and point of view on what mature single men find sexy. It’s not like what you think or see… Read more

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.”… Read more

The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives. ~ Byron Katie At this age many of us walk around with the “I know” mind. “Yeah, yeah,… Read more

“Mature love is not Tom Cruise jumping on a couch.” Don’t you just love that? That is a quote from Lynn, a 59 year old professional woman who recently married her forever guy. Lynn was… Read more

Emotional exhaustion. Hopelessness. Hating men and/or yourself. Feeling like it’s not worth all the nonsense, hurt, and disappointment. That’s what dating the wrong way can do to women. You have a pretty good life, so… Read more

Have you ever wondered what single men want from you? You go out on a date, you have fun, you have great conversation, you think you showed up as your best, and you want to… Read more