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Find Love After 40

The #1 One Way to Find Love After 40 – Love Yourself, Sister

Trying to find love after 40, 50, 60 or beyond? It can be frustrating, I know. Been there! I’m writing today about the story of my journey to finding love at 47. Specifically, one thing I… Read more

Scared of Men or Dating? Check Out My RANT!

Last night was my Grownup Girls’ Night Out webcast. I’ve been doing this live for about 2 1/2 years now. Every month I get online with hundreds of women and coach/train on a new topic… Read more

Find Love After 40

6 Compelling Reasons to Find Love After 40

What if I told you that falling in love when you’re 40, 50, 60 or beyond is the BEST time? When you find love after 40 it is eons better than when you are 18… Read more

My Very Personal Perfectly Imperfect over 40 Love Story

Here are 4 words that, years ago, I never thought I would hear: “Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary!” Yep, this week Larry and I celebrated the 10th year of our over 40 Love Story. No expensive… Read more

Should I Trust My Intuition About Men

Using Dating Mindfulness to Create Connection and Chemistry

Definition: “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn Sounds simple and kinda easy, right? Wrong! Why do you think Zen Buddhist monks meditate for… Read more

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How Your Old Dating Rules are Keeping You Single

I’m writing this as my husband, Larry, and I drive back from our little hideaway in Baja. When we go, Larry takes care of most everything. Making the plans with our friends, grabbing the passports and… Read more

Good Sex Aging Couple

Good Sex and Aging Bodies: 5 Tips To Go From Snooze to Shazam

Good sex and aging bodies is NOT an oxymoron.  If it’s been on your mind, you’re in good company, sister. But before you go thinking the days of Great Sex are behind you, I want… Read more

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Ready to Date Exclusively But He’s Not? Here’s What to Do.

You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed… Read more

Coping with Critics: How to Use Criticism to Your Advantage

Last week I was deluged with emails and blog comments from a very mean someone. My work, my personality and even my body were on the list of cruel insults. How do I handle coping with… Read more

Woman worried about dating after divorce

Dating After Divorce: 9 Tips to Make it an Adventure and a Success

Whoa…are you thinking of dating after divorce? I’m guessing that your feelings are running from “this is a little daunting” to “this is downright unthinkable…what the f*@k am I thinking?” Maybe the idea of doing… Read more