Can I Find Love When I Have Serious Life Problems?

I received an email yesterday that I want to share. I hear some form of this a lot: “I’m [not perfect because of fill-in-the-blank] and I’m worried no man will ever want me!” I get… Read more

This One Word Will Help You Attract the Right Man!

In order to attract the right man, you need to feel great about yourself AND be able to express who that wonderful woman is to the men you meet. That’s why Step 1 of my 6-Step… Read more

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Avoid Dating Burnout by Thinking More Like a Man

Dating burnout is your worst enemy if you are looking for love. This week I spoke with my client, “Sue,” who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out… Read more

Sex after 40… You Bet it Can it Be Hot

Ladies, are you looking for love and can’t wait to hop into bed with your new guy? Think of it: slowly undressing…. eyes locked…. savoring each other’s bodies… lust so intense that you both might… Read more

Online Dating Rejection: There’s No Such Thing!

This is one skill I want you to master: Rejecting online dating rejection. Learning to accept rejection gracefully, with as few “dings” to your self-esteem as possible, is key  to finding your true love using… Read more

Single Over 40? New Ideas for Things to Do This Weekend

When I was single I had a love/hate relationship with weekends. I loved having the extra time off work; I hated that I didn’t have a man to spend the time with. The truth is,… Read more

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How to Get More Online Dates

Want to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email. Before I met my spectacular husband on Match.com, I was online on and off… Read more

How the Smart Woman Stays Happy: She Talks to Herself

Larry left his wedding ring on his bedside table again this morning. I hate when he does that. So, as I always do, I put it on my thumb and walked around with it on… Read more

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What to Do When You’re Rejected After a Date

In the past couple weeks I’ve had two spectacular clients realize they’re falling in love with the men they are dating. I’m thrilled for them because each of their guys is one of The Good… Read more

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Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid of Being Naked in Front of Him

Are you excited about the notion of hopping into bed with your new guy? Slowly undressing…eyes locked…savoring each other’s bodies…lust so intense that you both might explode… …or does the thought of it make you… Read more