Understanding Men

Date Like a Grownup

3 Things to Stop Doing If You Want to Be In Love

I found love at age 47. That means I spent about 30 years flailing away at dating before I met and married my spectacular man. I feel special and loved every single day, and our… Read more

How To Ask And Answer The Question: Where Is This Relationship Going??

You’ve been seeing him for a little while. It’s somewhat regular. You think he could be The One. But you have no idea what he’s thinking. Is he into you? Is he looking for a… Read more

One Surprising Way Men Help Us While Hurting Us

It’s your fear of rejection that is getting you rejected. ~~ Bobbi Palmer I know…I write about rejection a lot: how to recognize when it is and isn’t real; how there’s no such thing as… Read more

How to Tell If He’s a Good Man

Today I’m delighted to share a post from my dear friend and brilliant colleague, Dr. Tina Tessina, Ph.D., a.k.a. Dr. Romance. Tina takes on one of the biggest challenges we face as single women: how… Read more

Believe in YOU-say no to a man

How to Say “No” (Whether You Like Him or Not) [Video]

We just hate to say no to a man, don’t we? I mean we’re supposed to be nice and make him like us. Isn’t that what we learned from the time we were little girls?… Read more

What Does a Man Have to Be to Make You Happy?

Here is a story that you may not immediately relate to, but stay with me. It may very well lead you to a mid-week dating or relationship breakthrough! One of my current coaching clients, Sharon,… Read more

The Simple Word to Use to Magnetize the Right Man

A single man I know once said: If a woman I’m interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her…and trying to convince her that she’s great would be too f—ing exhausting.… Read more

What is Your Online Dating IQ?

I know I sound like a broken record about the benefits of dating online, especially if you are single and over 40. I’m going to continue to nag you about this because I want what… Read more

Feeling Rejected? Why You Should Be Happy – Part Two

We’ve been talking about feeling rejected, and why the pain you’re feeling may not be necessary at all. I know you’ve been waiting with bated breath! As promised, what follows is my seriously humiliating story… Read more

Should You Go On a Second Date with Him?

I read this quote recently: I love that feeling of being in love, the effect of having butterflies when you wake up in the morning. That is special.  ~ Jennifer Aniston I love her, and… Read more