Dating after 40 and Beyond

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How to Say “No” (Whether You Like Him or Not) [Video]

We just hate to say no to a man, don’t we? I mean we’re supposed to be nice and make him like us. Isn’t that what we learned from the time we were little girls?… Read more

Looking Good & Feeling Good-Some Tips

I read something interesting about men this week: In making a first impression with men, women have about 15 minutes. Women, on the other hand, take about an hour to make up their minds about… Read more

How to Shake Up Your Love Life This Weekend [Video]

Do you feel like you’re in a bit of a rut? Sometimes, especially when we’re older and haven’t dated for a while, we can start feeling bored, boring or invisible when it comes to men.… Read more

How to Answer Those Personal Questions You Don’t Want to Answer [Video]

Were you at last Friday’s Grownup Girls’ Night Out Live Man Panel? I had three men — ages 40s, 50s and 70s —  generously share their thoughts and feelings about what attracts them to women,… Read more

Single After 40? How to Feel as Fabulous as You Really Are

It’s happening, ladies. Across the globe, in the mainstream media, on the internet, in our very own neighborhoods – we are taking back the definition of beauty, the definition of ideal, the definition of attractive… Read more

What Does a Man Have to Be to Make You Happy?

Here is a story that you may not immediately relate to, but stay with me. It may very well lead you to a mid-week dating or relationship breakthrough! One of my current coaching clients, Sharon,… Read more

The Simple Word to Use to Magnetize the Right Man

A single man I know once said: If a woman I’m interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her…and trying to convince her that she’s great would be too f—ing exhausting.… Read more

Why After 40 is the Best Time to be Dating and Finding Love

I’ve been on vacation for the week with my darling husband. (Isn’t he cute?)  Here we are relaxed, a little tan and enjoying lunch by the pool. (They have the best chicken nachos…we’ve had them… Read more

What to Say to a Man You Want to Know (Even If He’s Hot)

Once again I’m addressing the basic question: Where do I meet single men? But it’s actually a little more. What if a good lookin’ single guy is standing in front of you? Then what do… Read more

Tons (of Free Stuff) Going On for V-Day Week!

So you may or may not be looking forward to this week, but there is so much great stuff going on! The only way I figured I could share it all with you was to… Read more