“Mature love is not Tom Cruise jumping on a couch.” Don’t you just love that? That is a quote from Lynn, a 59 year old professional woman who recently married her forever guy. Lynn was… Read more

Emotional exhaustion. Hopelessness. Hating men and/or yourself. Feeling like it’s not worth all the nonsense, hurt, and disappointment. That’s what dating the wrong way can do to women. You have a pretty good life, so… Read more

Have you ever wondered what single men want from you? You go out on a date, you have fun, you have great conversation, you think you showed up as your best, and you want to… Read more

How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. I love my darling man, but I’m often frustrated at his lack of… Read more

Happy Mother’s Day! In my mind, being a great Mother is the most difficult and most important job on Earth. Admittedly, I don’t know from personal experience, which is probably why I have such admiration… Read more

Are you perfect? Do you know anyone who is? Look at the people you know who are in midlife or older: do you know anyone who doesn’t have some rough times behind her or is… Read more

If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health… Read more

So you think you’re going to meet a great guy with real potential, only to find out that he’s got scary baggage, a health issue or a habit you just can’t stand. Find out if… Read more

Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman dating over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it… Read more