In an effort to help you understand the man side of this mature dating experience, I’ve introduced you to The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat and The Wow-Me Woman: all FemiTypes* that send good men running. Today I’m going to talk about perhaps the most challenging of all FemiTypes: The Bitter Woman. […]

We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I’m sure you’ve encountered your share of Pingers, Needy-men and Players as you meet single men. I get it, and you belong to a large, loving sisterhood. But it’s not only us gals who have dating […]

Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men that are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you are going to date like a grownup, developing empathy for men is crucial. Just like all your relationships, when you have the ability to step outside yourself and get […]

If you’re going to be a successful grownup dater (which means you have fun and meet good men), an essential tool is the ability to empathize with the men you meet. Empathy is not feeling sorry for someone. It’s being able to put yourself in their shoes and understand their experience. I believe that the […]

I love men. People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. I don’t. But I tell them that I help men by helping women. (It really is ALL about you!) One of the most transformational ways I support women is by helping you better understand GROWNUP men. […]

Let’s face it: you are an awesome, capable, exceptional woman. You have also probably been doing, thinking and believing the wrong things about yourself and about men for a very long time. You CAN do what I finally did: let go of all the old thoughts, habits, and behaviors that are getting in the way […]

Want to hear  how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the walls that were chasing men away?  Or how the women’s movement made it harder for us to make connections with […]

When it comes to dating, two letters that are next to each other in the alphabet have never been so negatively charged! When you think about it, we probably say “no” more than a handful of times every day. “No thanks, I don’t want fries with that.” “No, I don’t want to switch cell phone […]

Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face it, these are important things you want to know about a man, yet they’re topics you’re taught to tip-toe around. […]

So many women want to know why men disappear. You know the story: He texts or calls and you have a great conversation. He asks you out, once, twice even three times…you think it’s going great and maybe even that it has potential and then…POOF! He disappears. No calls. No response to your texts. Crickets […]