handling online rejection

3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is:… Read more

Want to Meet Men? Take Action and You’ll Get Reaction

I’m always asked “where can I meet men?” And I always answer: everywhere and anywhere. And then I get a look of confusion or frustration. What? You don’t believe me? Read this and get one… Read more

How to Enjoy Dating Over 40

I think looking for a good man is a lot like looking for a good job. You have to: know what you want, know what you have to offer, always keep your eye out for… Read more

25 Ways to Get Out and Have Fun This Weekend (Without Waiting for a Date)

When I was single I had a love-hate relationship with weekends. Yay! I didn’t have to wake up by that horrid alarm, go to work and then be forced to spend 8 (sometimes more) hours… Read more

Should I Waste My Time Dating an “Imperfect” Guy?

30 minutes. That’s about how long you generally have to “get to know” a man before deciding to have a cup of coffee or date with him. You meet online, or at the local bank,… Read more

Mother and daughter talking about dating

5 Tips to Help You Keep Dating, Even When it Sucks

Yesterday I wanted to quit. This is too hard. There are days things seem to be clicking and I’m finally getting it… marching boldly toward my goal. Then there are days like yesterday when I… Read more

10 Style Secrets of Sexy Women Over 40

Do you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your… Read more

Bobbi Palmer

My Very Personal Message to You

This is the content of my newsletter I sent to my subscribers this week. It’s a celebration and a Thank You to all of you women who love so deeply and nourish my soul. I’m… Read more

Why Are Men Intimidated By Me?

I’ve been told that I’m intimidating. That’s what my new client, Liz, told me today. She says that several men have said that she’s intimidating and “too much for them.” I heard many versions of… Read more

Men Are People Too

Why It Can Be a Good Thing When He Goes Cave-bound

Last week a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just often enough… Read more