10 Style Secrets of Sexy Women Over 40

Do you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your cake?

Check out this guest post by Sybil Henry, The Style Concierge. Sybil joined me Wednesday night for my GGNO Club event: The Art of Being a Woman, Mastering Your Secret Super Power. (Have you signed up yet?) I love this woman. you will too.


The lifestyle habits of hip, healthy & sexy women over 40 allow them to enjoy living life to its fullest. They have learned to embrace aging and as a result, look and feel better than at any other time in their life. Their style is a reflection of the essence of the inside that is consistently brought forward to the outside. The unspoken communication of their style demonstrates to the world they understand and accept who they are; this radiates authentic personal power and confidence that draws others towards them. They live life by a savvy set of rules that are uniquely their own. Hip, healthy and sexy women over 40 know:

1. They only buy what they love. They shop for clothing that appeals to them. They would rather spend more for something they love that makes them look and feel amazing every time they wear it.

2. They don’t make purchase decisions based on size tags. They understand all clothing manufacturers cut to their own specifications and sizes can vary wildly. They judge a garment by how it fits, flatters and makes them feel.

3. They show their shape, not their skin. They have learned the powerful and confident unspoken statement made by leaving more to the imagination. They skim the sexy curves of their body rather than excessively showing skin.

4. They maintain the defining details, hair and nails. You won’t see them stuck in a hairstyle from a favorite decade, be in need of a trim or have stray grays. Their nails are always well groomed and clean. They understand the impact of head-to-toe grooming maintenance.

5. They don’t discuss their flaws publicly and are comfortable accepting a compliment. They accept compliments graciously and warmly with a simple, “Thank you!”

6. They keep their closets neat and organized. They know the condition of their closet is in direct relationship to their emotional connection with their bodies and reflects other areas of their life. Their impeccably organized closet allows them to easily see all their clothing options to get the most out of everything they own.

7. They understand the power of clothing and style. They are very aware of the non-verbal cues and communication clothing makes. They make deliberate style statements and carefully craft their statement of choice.

8. They maximize the power of undergarments. They know that choosing the proper fitting undergarments can change the shape of their bodies. The right bra lifts and separates, shapewear nips, tucks, smoothes and allows clothing to glide across their body.

9. They have excellent eye contact, a warm smile and confident posture. They know that no matter how great their outfit looks; it is how they carry themselves that is really priceless. These are the things that make the greatest impact and leave the most memorable impression.

10. They have a positive attitude about life over forty. They know it’s not just about aging; it’s an opportunity to be better than at any other time in life. They know this is the time when you get a second chance to be better than you have ever been. This is their time to live hip, healthy and sexy over 40!

You can find the fabulous Sybil Henry and sign up to receive her free tips on how to live a hip, healthy & sexy lifestyle over 40 at www.thestyleconcierge.com.

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