Understanding Men

Why You’re Not Finding Quality Men

Dating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest… Read more

Online Dating: How to Get Started and Make it Work

As if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to… Read more

Please Be Kind to Frogs

Think about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss… Read more

How Men’s and Women’s Brains Differ

For a long time I’ve been talking about how important it is to understand men, and then to let them be who they are. They are not simply unwilling to change for us; in many… Read more

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How We Screw Up Our Chance for Love by Creating Our Own Reality

I don’t care how old you are; if you’re a woman who’s dating there will come a time when you get rejected.  It happens to the smartest, most beautiful, desirable, and classiest of us. Rejection… Read more

How Smart Women Can Find Love with Smart Men: The Finale

Let’s continue the conversation about smart women and dating. Today’s post is the final in my series with my take on the article “Why Do the Smartest Women Have the Toughest Time Dating?,” published in… Read more

How Smart Women Can Find Love with Smart Men: Part II

In his article “Why Do the Smartest Women Have the Toughest Time Dating?” published in the Huffington Post, Dr. Alex Benzer confesses to love smart women, then asserts that smart women looking for a mate… Read more

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How Smart Women Can Find Love with Smart Men, Part I

Are smart women their own worst enemies when dating and looking for love? If you consider yourself a smart woman, and have ever thought your intelligence gets in the way of finding a man to… Read more

Dating Commandment #2: Kindness… With Men

Today’s excerpt is from page 17 of my eBook. It’s about empathy, which means extending the kindness of being able and willing to put yourself in a man’s shoes when you date. Kindness…With Men: Dating… Read more

Over 40 Dating Tip: It’s Really Not about the Size of Your Thighs, Part I

When I used to meet men, my first mission was to make it clear to them that I had a very full life and was doing just fine on my own. I thought it was… Read more