Dating after 40 and Beyond

Online Dating: How to Get Started and Make it Work

As if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to… Read more

Please Be Kind to Frogs

Think about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss… Read more

The Secret to Being a Happy Dater

Why is it that when we date — even at 40, 50, or 60 — we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to recognize yourself… Read more

How to Make Friends with Rejection

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is:… Read more

Why You Should Be Looking for Love

Are you “taking a break”, open but not hopeful, or have you just given up? I know dating can he hard sometimes, but I want to shake you and tell you to just go for… Read more

Do You Actually Know When You’re Being Rejected?

Rejection can be a very good thing. Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a… Read more

How Men’s and Women’s Brains Differ

For a long time I’ve been talking about how important it is to understand men, and then to let them be who they are. They are not simply unwilling to change for us; in many… Read more

Why You Shouldn’t Be Afraid of Men

I’ve been telling you for a long time that men are just like us, with many of the same insecurities and fears. As I like to say: Men Are People Too. And who better to… Read more

The Truth about Reading Men’s Minds – And Quieting Yours

If you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it…what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men: N-E-V-E-R! Oh how we… Read more

How to Know if He Is Merely Hot…or Maybe Husband?

Looking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros? Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time… Read more