Dating after 40 and Beyond

How Do You Know If He’s The One? The #1 Tip.

How do you know if he’s The One? Listen to Albert Einstein who once said: “Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” Al was so damn smart! Not only was he the king of quantum physics, he got right to the heart of one […]

Do You Have Cancer?

Did I scare you? Good. Want to stop reading? Don’t. I was going to post something today that had great dating advice about not trying to change men. I’ve been pretty serious lately, so I planned on making it fun. Right in the middle of writing I checked email (a common occurrence thanks to my […]

How We Screw Up Our Chance for Love by Creating Our Own Reality

I don’t care how old you are; if you’re a woman who’s dating there will come a time when you get rejected.  It happens to the smartest, most beautiful, desirable, and classiest of us. Rejection during the dating phase most often comes in the form of never getting another call.  We can talk about the […]

5 Must-Know Tips for Boomer Women Dating Online

Dating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. My clients, women ranging from 35 – 65, are having great success with it. Face it: online dating is the new hot spot for people who wouldn’t dream of meeting someone in a bar. You know I’m a huge proponent of online dating. […]

How Smart Women Can Find Love with Smart Men: The Finale

Let’s continue the conversation about smart women and dating. Today’s post is the final in my series with my take on the article “Why Do the Smartest Women Have the Toughest Time Dating?,” published in the Huffington Post by Dr. Alex Benzer. (If you haven’t read my previous posts, you can find Part One here; […]

How Smart Women Can Find Love with Smart Men: Part II

In his article “Why Do the Smartest Women Have the Toughest Time Dating?” published in the Huffington Post, Dr. Alex Benzer confesses to love smart women, then asserts that smart women looking for a mate who “remain single, alone and lonely,” have but one thing in common: themselves. Thus, he says, should change. I agree […]

How Smart Women Can Find Love with Smart Men, Part I

Are smart women their own worst enemies when dating and looking for love? If you consider yourself a smart woman, and have ever thought your intelligence gets in the way of finding a man to share your life with, you need to read on and be part of this discussion. On December 7, Dr. Alex […]

Love Is All That Matters. Period.

Good morning. I don’t have any interesting stories or smart quips for you today. I have but one point to make: love and human connection is everything. All that matters. The end. I just watched a story about all the kids in Haiti who will grow up not just in dire poverty but without arms […]

Why Is Dating Scary? You’ve Slain Way Worse Dragons.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, I’m thinking of those of you who are hoping for love to come into your life. This was always the time of year that my “screw this; I give up” voice started endlessly beating its drum. Sometimes the frustration and disappointment was just too much. Luckily, I never 100% convinced myself […]

I’m One of the 101 Women Bloggers to Watch in 2010!

We Magazine for Women — a terrific resource for “busy women on the move” — has named me one of the 101 bloggers to watch in 2010. I’m so honored, especially because the magazine — the brainchild of the spectacular Heidi Richards — is truly a go-to place for women on the Web. If you haven’t […]

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