Dating after 40 and Beyond

Do All Men Make You Mad? (FemiType #5: The Bitter Woman)

In an effort to help you understand the man side of this mature dating experience, I’ve introduced you to The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat and The Wow-Me Woman: all FemiTypes* that… Read more

Are You Scaring Yourself Out of Love? (FemiType #3: The Scaredy Cat)

We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I’m sure you’ve encountered your share of Pingers, Needy-men and Players as you meet single men.… Read more

Why Some Nice Guys Never Call Again (FemiType #2: The 18 Year Old)

Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men that are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you are going to date like a grownup, developing empathy… Read more

Are You Regal or a Royal Pain? (FemiType #1: The Princess)

If you’re going to be a successful grownup dater (which means you have fun and meet good men), an essential tool is the ability to empathize with the men you meet. Empathy is not feeling… Read more

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (The 6 FemiTypes)

I love men. People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. I don’t. But I tell them that I help men by helping women. (It really is… Read more

STOP Making These 3 Dating Mistakes if You Want a Grownup Love Story

Let’s face it: you are an awesome, capable, exceptional woman. You have also probably been doing, thinking and believing the wrong things about yourself and about men for a very long time. You CAN do… Read more

Bobbi Palmer on UBN Radio

Dish with Me & Mrs. D. – Hear My Horrible Dating Mistakes and More

Want to hear  how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the… Read more

What to Do When The Man You’re Dating Says “No”

When it comes to dating, two letters that are next to each other in the alphabet have never been so negatively charged! When you think about it, we probably say “no” more than a handful… Read more

Talking About Money When Dating or in a New Relationship

Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face… Read more

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Why Men Disappear After a Few Great Texts, Calls, or Dates

So many women want to know why men disappear. You know the story: He texts or calls and you have a great conversation. He asks you out, once, twice even three times…you think it’s going… Read more