8 Ways to Prevent Turning to Mush around Single Men

I’ve heard the same thing from so many women this week that I had to ask you if this sounds familiar: “I’m generally a very friendly, confident gal…unless I’m in the company of a single… Read more

10 Things You Can Learn about a Guy without Interrogating Him

You know how I constantly tell you that you don’t have to dig deep into a man’s soul or obtain a full biography upon first meeting? There are a lot of things you can learn… Read more

Dating over 40: This is Why He’s Not Asking You Out

Continuing from a previous article, it’s important to make yourself memorable when you are dating. There are tons of women out there; you want to be the one he wants to know. When you follow… Read more

Dating over 40: Why He’s Not Asking You Out

I can answer this in three words: You’re not memorable. That’s it. Whether it’s the hot man you had a nice chat with at the local coffee shop or the guy you had a great… Read more

Why You’re Still Single

One of my clients recently said, “I don’t think there’s something wrong with me; I just think I’m doing something wrong.” Bingo. The majority of women who come to me for help with dating and… Read more

So What IS Dating Like a Grownup?

Dating like a grownup is about knowing and liking yourself, making good decisions and finding that sometimes elusive balance between your heart and your head. Last week I was interviewed by Eric Michaels of eHealth… Read more

The Simple Secret You’re Missing in Your Search for Love

Lately I’ve come upon what I think is one of the biggest ironies of all: Good single men want women just like you…yet you’re not yourself when you’re around them. Many fears stand in the… Read more

5 More Steps to Take Control of Your Dating Life

YOU are in control of your choices and experiences as you date. Believing you have this control, and feeling the empowerment of that belief is essential to being able to fully participate and enjoy dating… Read more

5 Steps to Take Control of Your Dating Life

If the thought of dating and searching for a loving life partner makes you feel anxious, nervous, or even a little creeped out…you are not alone. It’s these feelings, (all based in fear, btw) that… Read more

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Make Your List, But Consider It Twice (Or Thrice!)

Can you use a dating pick-me-up? Something to boost your hope of finding your fabulous life partner? If you’re wondering if dating and the nonsense that sometimes comes with it is worth it, read on.… Read more