Why Women Over 40 Should be Picky Daters

“I know why you aren’t married: you’re just too picky!” Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you… Read more

If He Doesn’t Make You Feel Special It’s Time to Move On

Ever found yourself wondering “Is he into me?” or “Should I move on?” Check out this email exchange I recently shared with a blog reader. Dear Bobbi, Thank you.  Your dating tips are helpful and… Read more

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Setting Dating and Relationship Boundaries and Rules

Are you out there dating and simply taking things as they come? Or are you setting some dating and relationship boundaries and rules so you can take care of yourself and have as much control… Read more

Face Your Fear of Dating Over 40

Do you go month to month, year to year, repeating the same mantra about men? It leaves your mouth in various forms, but you’ve got only one point: to release yourself from any responsibility and… Read more

How to Stop Being Afraid of Dating Over 40

When you think of dating – especially online dating – do you feel any fear? Do you get even a tiny twinge of terror? If your answer is “yes,” you are not alone. In fact,… Read more

3 Ways to Prepare for a Great Date

Before we get to our blog post, can I brag to you for a minute? I did two things in the last two weeks that I’m really proud of: 1) I started exercising, and 2)… Read more

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4 Ways to Flirt With a Man…Like a Grownup

Maybe you used to be a great flirt, but how do you flirt with a man now? No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and… Read more

10 Tips to Kick-Start Positive Change

All right, ladies. I trust we all got through Valentine’s Day, right? But let’s make this your last February fourteenth when you don’t have a fab date! To do that, you’re going to have to… Read more

Valentine’s Day: Make It All about YOU!

Have you been dreading it and trying to avoid it? Chances are pretty good – thanks to all the advertising and silliness – that you’re keenly aware Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. I… Read more

How to Spot the Bad Guys and Chase Them Away

Do you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn’t care what you want and need? I’m going to assume the answer is “no.” So I have to ask: Why would you… Read more