Online Dating

Is He Into Me

Is He Into Me? 6 Ways to Tell if a Grownup Man Digs You

Is he into me? It starts from the first email or text. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates after the meet date,… read the full post...

How long should I wait to have sex?

Sex can be a glorious part of a relationship, but get intimate too soon and the experience can wreak havoc on your emotions and mess up an otherwise budding relationship. Hence, so many of us want to… read the full post...

Online Dating First Date Tips for Grownup Women (Part 1)

Ah...you've connected with a man on match.com, tinder, eharmony.com or one of the other zillions of ways, and it's time for your first date. Okay, let me tell you some truth: online dating first dates are not really dates. Whaaat? Read on...

How Do You Answer His Question When It Feels Rude or Scary?

When you’re dating and trying to get to know one another, there’s a good chance he’s going to ask you all kinds of questions. How do you answer his question that seems rude, or that… read the full post...

When’s The Right Time to Be Exclusive With Him? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… read the full post...

What Do I Do When He’s Not Asking Me Out on a Real Date?

He emails and texts…and emails and texts. That’s it. The phone isn’t ringing and he’s not asking you out. All you want is for him to plan a freaking date so you can actually spend… read the full post...

How to Talk to a Man About Something That’s Bugging You (and Save Your Relationship!)

My client Rebecca had been dating Jim for six months. They had been exclusive almost since the day they met, and their relationship was moving along quite nicely. She really dug him, and they talked… read the full post...

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Do’s and Don’ts About Online Profile Photos for Women Dating after 40

Posting photos on your online dating profile can feel agonizing, especially for women and most especially for women who are dating later in life. Writing a profile and filling out questionnaires can be a challenge,… read the full post...

Why Dating Older Men Seems Boring & What You’re Missing If You Don’t

“Ann” is a 50-something single woman, using online dating. She’s looking for an energetic, passionate and interesting man. The majority of men who are contacting her are old dudes; like in their 60s. Dating older men seems so freaking… read the full post...

A Single Man’s Thoughts About Your Body (Part 2)

This is a second post from a 50-something anonymous Man-Fan.  (You can read Part 1 here.) After experiencing so many women put themselves down, pull back from intimacy and not accept his compliments, he decided to… read the full post...