In recognition of October being breast cancer awareness month, I am addressing this very common dilemma of dating after breast cancer. Go here for more information about breast cancer awareness. Today I’m sharing a question from a wonderful blog reader that I know will help many of you who are dating after breast cancer. As I […]
Here are 4 words that, years ago, I never thought I would hear: “Happy 10th Wedding Anniversary!” Yep, this week Larry and I celebrated the 10th year of our over 40 Love Story. No expensive presents, big shindig or celebratory trip. Just being together, enjoying one of our favorite restaurants with close friends. That was […]
Definition: “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.” Jon Kabat-Zinn Sounds simple and kinda easy, right? Wrong! Why do you think Zen Buddhist monks meditate for decades to get to the place of mindfulness and nirvana? You do not have to be a monk to use […]
I’m writing this as my husband, Larry, and I drive back from our little hideaway in Baja. When we go, Larry takes care of most everything. Making the plans with our friends, grabbing the passports and pesos, prepping the car, schlepping bags; I love it. That always reminds me how grateful I am to have finally […]
You feel ready to move forward in your relationship and want a commitment to date exclusively. He hasn’t brought it up. What is a smart, single, over 40 woman, who knows what she wants supposed to do? Just wait it out patiently? Or cut and run? Neither. There are definitely things you can do to […]
So…your man gets in touch and stops. And keeps doing it. Why does he keep disappearing and reappearing? It’s frustrating, confusing and maddening, isn’t it? Well, sister, there’s a good chance you’re being “Pinged” and I’m going to tell you why he’s doing it, and what to do about it. Whether you’re 20 or 50, […]
Let’s say you’ve dated someone for a month or a few months and you’ve decided to break up with him. You’ve given it your best shot, which means you’ve kept your mind open, focused on the positive and brought your best self to your time together. But it’s just NOT there. Or it IS there, […]
You want to attract more men, right? The right men? It’s both an art and a science. It’s about making some small adjustments, trying new things and just plain getting out of your rut. (And out of your house.) What better time than the new year to change things up a bit? If you do […]
It’s another new year. I am not a big believer in new year’s resolutions. Are you? For me, they induce guilt and remorse when I don’t keep them. But I am a huge believer in new beginnings and do-overs. There is no time or age limit when it comes to new beginnings of love. Gloria Steinem […]
He’s a man you want to know better. How do you make this first date the best time possible and turn it into a second date? Here’s exactly how: Dazzle him. Dazzling the right man is actually pretty simple. It takes a positive approach, along with a little finesse and skill. I know you want to do this like a grownup — authentically […]
