Is he into me? It starts from the first “hello” or glance across the room. Trying to decipher if he really likes you, or not. The doubting and trying to “figure it out” escalates from there. If it progresses to a meet date, then you worry about getting the first date, which moves on to wondering […]
Trying to find love after 40, 50, 60 or beyond? It can be frustrating, I know. Been there! I’m writing today about the story of my journey to finding love at 47. Specifically, one thing I finally learned that changed my life forever: It’s not at all about the men. Finding love after 40 all starts […]
Are you making online dating profile mistakes that scare men away? Not on purpose of course, but here are some signs you might be: Your inbox is empty. You’re only being contacted by couch potatoes, scammers and guys just looking for sex. Emails you write never get returned. Unfortunately, all it takes is one major dating […]
Hey…that’s ME! I was recently interviewed by the website DatingAdvice.com about how I support women dating after 40. I know you have very special needs and unique challenges. Like I said during my interview: Grownups have a different perspective on dating. They don’t need someone to build a life with; they need to fit into each other’s […]
It seems to me that the older you get the easier it is to get off on the wrong foot when meeting new single men. He’s nervous, you’re nervous. You both have decades of expectations, baggage, hopes, quirks, defenses and vulnerabilities. It can be damned hard to wade through all that in the first few […]
Do you have friends with benefits? In other words, a sexual relationship with someone you have no intention of ever committing to? Or maybe they have no intention of ever committing to you? It may seem like a very “grownup” thing to do – getting your intimacy needs met while still dating other men. But […]
Let’s say you’ve dated someone for a month or a few months and you’ve decided to break up with him. You’ve given it your best shot, which means you’ve kept your mind open, focused on the positive and brought your best self to your time together. But it’s just NOT there. Or it IS there, […]
Do you hate first dates? Hey, I used the be the no-second-date queen! But now I know that first dates are wonderful opportunities, and I teach women how to make the very best of every one. After all, it’s a first date that led me to my husband…the love of my life. Watch this “Blab” video, co-hosted with […]
Over the past few years it seems that almost every dating dilemma I hear from my coaching clients and girlfriends has something to do with texting. Texting and dating definitely isn’t just for 20 year olds anymore. These women are all dating after 40…some in their 60s and 70s. “Sue” connected with a man on Tinder, […]
Do you feel stuck in some definition of yourself that you think renders you undatable or uninteresting to men? I received a comment in response to my blog post Just Be Yourself And You Will Easily Attract The Right Man that was all about this. Give it a read, especially if you are dating after 40 and worry that you aren’t the woman […]
