When I say these two words — MEN and COMMITMENT — what comes to mind? Men are commitment phoebes? Men are afraid of marriage? Men just want the milk without buying the cow?  Does anything like this pop… Read more

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.”… Read more

You’ve probably asked at some point: Where are the good single men?  I have some news that will both surprise and delight you. The answer is they are everywhere! There are about 45 million single men over… Read more

How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. I love my darling man, but I’m often frustrated at his lack of… Read more

If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health… Read more

Want to hear  how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the… Read more

Do you find the decision about when to have sex is intimidating, even though you’re dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond? You are not alone, sister. I get a lot of questions about… Read more

A single man I know once said: If a woman I’m interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her…and trying to convince her that she’s great would be too f—ing exhausting.… Read more

You can meet the spectacular, special man who is going to be your life partner using online dating. I met the love of my life on www.match.com, so of course I recommend it to all… Read more