Understanding Men

NOT Knowing May Be Key to Finding & Keeping Love after 40

The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives. ~ Byron Katie At this age many of us walk around with the “I know” mind. “Yeah, yeah,… Read more

How Dating Like a Man Will Make You Happier

Emotional exhaustion. Hopelessness. Hating men and/or yourself. Feeling like it’s not worth all the nonsense, hurt, and disappointment. That’s what dating the wrong way can do to women. You have a pretty good life, so… Read more

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The Complicated Truth About What Single Men Want On a Date

Have you ever wondered what single men want from you? You go out on a date, you have fun, you have great conversation, you think you showed up as your best, and you want to… Read more

He WILL share his feelings if you know how to ask

6 Ways to Get Him to Talk About Feelings (Advice from a Dude!)

How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. I love my darling man, but I’m often frustrated at his lack of… Read more

Are You Attracting Cads and Pingers? (FemiType #6: The Sexpot)

Let me start today by telling you how magnificent you are. The fact that you are a woman dating over 40 and reading this tells me that you are all the more spectacular. Really, it… Read more

Why Some Nice Guys Never Call Again (FemiType #2: The 18 Year Old)

Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men that are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you are going to date like a grownup, developing empathy… Read more

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (The 6 FemiTypes)

I love men. People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. I don’t. But I tell them that I help men by helping women. (It really is… Read more

Bobbi Palmer on UBN Radio

Dish with Me & Mrs. D. – Hear My Horrible Dating Mistakes and More

Want to hear  how I used to mess up dates over and over…and how I learned to do it differently? Or maybe how I kicked my old stories to the curb and knocked down the… Read more

Talking About Money When Dating or in a New Relationship

Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face… Read more

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Why Men Disappear After a Few Great Texts, Calls, or Dates

So many women want to know why men disappear. You know the story: He texts or calls and you have a great conversation. He asks you out, once, twice even three times…you think it’s going… Read more