No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. It’s as true online as… Read more

If you are over 40 and dating, it is extremely likely that you have something that you’re afraid to share when you meet new men. How do I tell him I have herpes is one… Read more

For years I’ve told you that the most powerful way to attract a man without saying a word is with your smile and your eyes. An open welcoming smile and brief lingering eye contact are… Read more

Do you find the decision about when to have sex is intimidating, even though you’re dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond? You are not alone, sister. I get a lot of questions about… Read more

Today I’m delighted to share a post from my dear friend and brilliant colleague, Dr. Tina Tessina, Ph.D., a.k.a. Dr. Romance. Tina takes on one of the biggest challenges we face as single women: how… Read more

We just hate to say no to a man, don’t we? I mean we’re supposed to be nice and make him like us. Isn’t that what we learned from the time we were little girls?… Read more

Were you at last Friday’s Grownup Girls’ Night Out Live Man Panel? I had three men — ages 40s, 50s and 70s —  generously share their thoughts and feelings about what attracts them to women,… Read more

Here is a story that you may not immediately relate to, but stay with me. It may very well lead you to a mid-week dating or relationship breakthrough! One of my current coaching clients, Sharon,… Read more

A single man I know once said: If a woman I’m interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her…and trying to convince her that she’s great would be too f—ing exhausting.… Read more