Communication

He WILL share his feelings if you know how to ask

6 Ways to Get Him to Talk About Feelings (Advice from a Dude!)

How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. I love my darling man, but I’m often frustrated at his lack of… Read more

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Imperfection Does Not Equal Dating Rejection

Are you perfect? Do you know anyone who is? Look at the people you know who are in midlife or older: do you know anyone who doesn’t have some rough times behind her or is… Read more

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How to Handle Your Baggage When Dating after 40

If you are dating over 40, 50 or beyond, you ought to learn how to handle your baggage on dates. That nasty divorce, the bankruptcy, your high maintenance child, an STD or some other health… Read more

Why Some Nice Guys Never Call Again (FemiType #2: The 18 Year Old)

Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men that are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you are going to date like a grownup, developing empathy… Read more

Are You Regal or a Royal Pain? (FemiType #1: The Princess)

If you’re going to be a successful grownup dater (which means you have fun and meet good men), an essential tool is the ability to empathize with the men you meet. Empathy is not feeling… Read more

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (The 6 FemiTypes)

I love men. People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. I don’t. But I tell them that I help men by helping women. (It really is… Read more

Talking About Money When Dating or in a New Relationship

Here’s a question: What are two of the most delicate topics you have to traverse when you’re getting to know a man and wondering if he could be The One? Sex and money, right? Face… Read more

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Why Men Disappear After a Few Great Texts, Calls, or Dates

So many women want to know why men disappear. You know the story: He texts or calls and you have a great conversation. He asks you out, once, twice even three times…you think it’s going… Read more

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Stay Safe and Stop Getting Hurt By Setting Dating Rules

Can you define your dating rules and boundaries? If your answer is no or if you’re not sure, STOP right now and take 7 minutes to read this. Because if you want to stay safe…if… Read more

Date Like a Grownup

3 Things to Stop Doing If You Want to Be In Love

I found love at age 47. That means I spent about 30 years flailing away at dating before I met and married my spectacular man. I feel special and loved every single day, and our… Read more