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Want to become a better dater and (man) lover? Learn what over-40 men face when dating. Surprise!!

What Dating After 40 Is Like for Men (Advice for Women)

I love men. I’m often asked whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men dating after 40. I don’t. But I DO help men by helping women who are dating after 40. (It really… Read more

What Do I Do When He’s Not Asking Me Out on a Real Date?

He emails and texts…and emails and texts. That’s it. The phone isn’t ringing and he’s not asking you out. All you want is for him to plan a freaking date so you can actually spend… Read more

What You Should Know About Texting and Dating…for Grownups

Over the past few years it seems that almost every dating dilemma I hear from my coaching clients and girlfriends has something to do with texting. Texting and dating definitely isn’t just for 20 year olds… Read more

How to Talk to a Man About Something That’s Bugging You (and Save Your Relationship!)

My client Rebecca had been dating Jim for six months. They had been exclusive almost since the day they met, and their relationship was moving along quite nicely. She really dug him, and they talked… Read more

Why Dating Older Men Seems Boring & What You’re Missing If You Don’t

“Ann” is a 50-something single woman, using online dating. She’s looking for an energetic, passionate and interesting man. The majority of men who are contacting her are old dudes; like in their 60s. Dating older men seems so freaking… Read more

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What 100+ Single Men Think and Feel About Cheating, Love and More

As your dating and relationship coach it’s so important that I teach you as much as I can about men: who they are, what dating is like for them what they want , what they mean… Read more

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The Fun of Bringing Out the Best in the Men You Date

This is Nancy, Bobbi’s assistant and Grownup Girls’ Night Out producer. I’m guest-blogging today while Bobbi is taking well-deserved vacation. We had an amazing response to the post “A Man-Fan’s Fiercely Honest Story of Dating after 50.”… Read more

Where are the Good Single Men over 40?

You’ve probably asked at some point: Where are the good single men?  I have some news that will both surprise and delight you. The answer is they are everywhere! There are about 45 million single men over… Read more

NOT Knowing May Be Key to Finding & Keeping Love after 40

The mind usually says, “I know, I know, I know.” But the “don’t-know mind” is where wisdom lives. ~ Byron Katie At this age many of us walk around with the “I know” mind. “Yeah, yeah,… Read more

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The Complicated Truth About What Single Men Want On a Date

Have you ever wondered what single men want from you? You go out on a date, you have fun, you have great conversation, you think you showed up as your best, and you want to… Read more