I started someone on a new exercise today, and realized that her work is work we all should be doing. She’s losing respect for her husband because he’s not making enough money to support them… Read more

I believe this statement is generally true: Women can twist themselves like a pretzel to please a man and persuade him to adore her. My friend Pegi reminded me of this the other day. While… Read more

H-E-L-L-O! Are you still with me? I know this is a bit instructional and maybe not all that fun. But trust me: This exercise is an absolute must! You have to be clear on the… Read more

Before you can recognize your Mr. I Love You — the man who is good for you and makes you feel the way you want and deserve to feel — you have to be in… Read more

In the past week I’ve talked to three fabulous women about how the men they’re meeting lack the qualities they want in a mate. Turns out none of them have ever devoted time to getting… Read more

I know…I’ve been neglecting my blogging duties. But when you see where I’ve been, you’ll completely understand. For the past week Larry and I have been hiding out on an island off the coast of… Read more

This week seems to be the week of cynicism. Is the moon in some funky position or something? I’ve talked with so many of you who have expressed the feeling of sadness and defeat around… Read more

I had to share this story. It’s absolutely true. It’s about a courageous grown-up woman who confessed her secret wish, did a little work, and then had her wish come true. My client Pamela is… Read more

An Online Dating over 40 Scenario I had a great four-hour lunch with my friend Jan this weekend. Among other things, we talked about her love life. She’s been doing online dating for quite some… Read more