Dating after 40 and Beyond

The #1 Killer of Good Dates and Relationships

“What’s the biggest challenge women face when dating?” This is the question I get asked most often as a dating and relationship coach for women over 40.   And the interesting thing is that it’s mostly… Read more

The Wondrous Effect of Showing Kindness to Men When Dating

How kind are you when you date? I know you’re well-mannered, but are you being kind to the men you meet? Here are definitions of “kind”: 1. Having or showing a tender, considerate and helpful… Read more

Given a Chance, How Men Can Surprise You!

Are you resisting letting men help you or do nice things for you? Maybe you’re thinking it threatens your independence or makes you seem weak. Or maybe you’re just trying to be low-maintenance; thinking that… Read more

Woman with fear of dating and tired of being single over 40

A Simple Truth That Will Free You From Fears About Dating

What are your fears about dating and looking for your mate? I had tons of things I was afraid of when I was dating. Mostly, I dreaded rejection with what felt like primal fear. With… Read more

Stop Doing This One Thing to Improve Your Dates and Relationships

Raise your hand if you can accurately read the minds of your girlfriends.  My guess is that, at least for a few, you actually can. Larry and I can read each other’s minds at times. … Read more

handling online rejection

3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is:… Read more

Want to Meet Men? Take Action and You’ll Get Reaction

I’m always asked “where can I meet men?” And I always answer: everywhere and anywhere. And then I get a look of confusion or frustration. What? You don’t believe me? Read this and get one… Read more

How to Enjoy Dating Over 40

I think looking for a good man is a lot like looking for a good job. You have to: know what you want, know what you have to offer, always keep your eye out for… Read more

25 Ways to Get Out and Have Fun This Weekend (Without Waiting for a Date)

When I was single I had a love-hate relationship with weekends. Yay! I didn’t have to wake up by that horrid alarm, go to work and then be forced to spend 8 (sometimes more) hours… Read more

Should I Waste My Time Dating an “Imperfect” Guy?

30 minutes. That’s about how long you generally have to “get to know” a man before deciding to have a cup of coffee or date with him. You meet online, or at the local bank,… Read more