What are you doing this coming weekend? Are you getting out to have some fun? Are you going somewhere to be around people and practice your connection skills? Are you hopping online and writing emails… Read more

Men and women are more alike than we tend to think. We all want to be loved, to be understood and to feel safe in our most precious relationships. There are, though, some clear differences… Read more

The first ten minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is ever going to happen, and let’s face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story… Read more

What layers of “stuff” are creating a barrier between you and your dream of sharing your life with a good man? As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40, I see this all… Read more

If you are a woman over 40, single and looking for love, I think I know your story. It goes something like this: You’ve been single longer than planned. The men you meet – when… Read more

I have sympathy for men. When it comes to dating, they have it really hard. Do you already know this? I think having compassion for the men you meet is an important part of dating… Read more

“I’m tired of being exhausted.” That’s what Shari told me this week during our coaching session. We’ve only worked a few weeks together but she’s had some ah-ha moments that have started her on the… Read more

Masturbation. There…I said it. The “Big M.” And the most efficient way to get the job done is to use a vibrator. I don’t generally talk about this, so it may shock you. But the… Read more

Last week I hosted a workshop called Get Online, Get Noticed, Get Dates, Exclusively for Women over 40. I had a fantastic time with these smart and lovely women who really want to meet their… Read more