Dating after 40 and Beyond

Is Your Negative Self Talk Killing Your Love Life?

It’s another new year. I am not a big believer in new year’s resolutions. Are you? For me, they induce guilt and remorse when I don’t keep them. But I am a huge believer in new… Read more

Coping with Critics: How to Use Criticism to Your Advantage

Last week I was deluged with emails and blog comments from a very mean someone. My work, my personality and even my body were on the list of cruel insults. How do I handle coping with… Read more

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Single During the Holidays: Avoid the Blues and Make the Most of It

Single during the holidays – this was probably NOT how you pictured your life at this stage. Whether you are accepting and content with your singlehood or plunging forward with dating, this time of year… Read more

How Do You Answer His Question When It Feels Rude or Scary?

When you’re dating and trying to get to know one another, there’s a good chance he’s going to ask you all kinds of questions. How do you answer his question that seems rude, or that… Read more

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15 Ways to Get a Second Date…Like a Grownup

He’s a man you want to know better.  How do you make this first date the best time possible and turn it into a second date? Here’s exactly how: Dazzle him. Dazzling the right man is actually… Read more

You Won’t Hate First Dates When You Follow These Tips

Do you hate first dates? Hey, I used the be the no-second-date queen! But now I know that first dates are wonderful opportunities, and I teach women how to make the very best of every one.… Read more

10 Tiny Tweaks That Will Revive Your Dating Life

Not dating at all? Not feeling like it? Slogging through it like some job you have to do? Time to revive your dating life! If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always… Read more

Should I Say Yes and Be Exclusive? Your Questions Answered.

I am asked all the time: When’s the right time to be exclusive with him? How many dates before you say “yes” you want to focus on getting to know one another? When is it… Read more

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Woman Dating after 40? Congrats! It’s the Best Time to Find Love!

As your coach it’s my job to guide you through navigating dating at this time of your life. As a woman dating after 40, I’m sure you’re finding that it’s quite different than dating when you… Read more

NO-Don't Attract Narcissist or Jerk

Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and Jerks How to Stop NOW!

Have you ever asked yourself ‘why do I keep attracting narcissists and jerky men’? If you are you a smart, kind, self-reliant and successful woman with a smattering of the usual insecurities…then you’re a sitting… Read more