10 Easy Ways to Get His Attention

If you’re a single woman working toward meeting a grownup, confident and relationship-minded man, a must-have skill is the art of conversation. If your perception is that all a guy does is look you up… Read more

5 Must-Know Tips for Online Dating after 40

Let’s face it: Meeting single men can be hard, especially if you’re in your 40s, 50s or beyond. You’re not meeting men at work or in bars anymore. You can talk to only so many… Read more

Exactly What to Say to Men in Difficult Situations

In dating, knowing what to say to men, especially in challenging situations, is the key to attracting the right men. It’s also the key to developing and maintaining fulfilling relationships. One of the most important ways I support… Read more

Why You Should Open Yourself Up to Love Over 40

I’m at a fabulous conference in Miami on online dating and then off to visit my dad for a couple days. Here is a repost of one of my popular articles that also happens to… Read more

My Top Tip for Improving Your Relationships and Dates

I’m on a well-deserved vacation with my spectacular man, as you can see from the photo. Need I say more? Here is a repost of one of my popular articles. Be back next week!  … Read more

Why You Might Want to Stop Looking for a Man

I know you say you’re looking for a loving and committed man to share your life, but I have to ask…have you found yourself yet? I know you’ve heard this before and it sounds trite,… Read more

Horrible Dates in the Holiday Season: Here’s Why

I’ve had several clients tell me recently that they feel like they’re “stalling out” when it comes to dating and relationships. They are hearing a lot of “I’ll call you” and never getting a call. … Read more

What Men Say About Women (It May Surprise You!)

What if you could hear men honestly share their thoughts and feelings about women, dating, sex and relationships? I had the opportunity to do that twice last week when I hosted and observed “man panels.”… Read more

When Should I Have Sex with Him?

The ladies in my 6-Step Find Hope and Find Him telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. This can be a tough topic for women who are dating after 40. They asked me “When should I have sex… Read more

Why Some Men Talk Too Much on Dates

As a dating coach for women over 40, I often hear stories about men talking their heads off on dates as the women sit quietly nodding and “uh-hu-ing.” (Notice I didn’t say listening.) Inevitably, these… Read more